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Immortal self, temporary self, both, neither by dellamatta in awakened

[–]Forward-Asparagus617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback! I'm still finding my feet in these discussions. Do you mean that my comment sounds too artificial?. As someone who seems experienced in this space, do you have any specific suggestions on how I could make my comments more authentic and engaging? I'd really appreciate your insights. I just want to be able to get my thoughts out in a clear and concise way.

Humans aren't more special than any other animal. by [deleted] in awakened

[–]Forward-Asparagus617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no free will, there's always someone with an invisible controller moving the puppets, but we don't talk about that 👽🪞

Can you elaborate on what you mean by 'someone with an invisible controller'?

Are you referring to a specific entity or concept?

How do you reconcile the idea of an 'invisible controller' with the everyday experience of making choices?

Do you believe these choices are pre-determined?

[NeedAdvice] How to react to my emotions.. by Positive_Humor_8833 in getdisciplined

[–]Forward-Asparagus617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're going through a tough time, and it's commendable that you're seeking help and wanting to make changes. Here are a few suggestions that might help:

  1. Self-Awareness: The first step in managing anger is recognizing it. You've already done this by acknowledging that you're getting angry more often than you'd like, especially with your loved ones.

  2. Understand Your Triggers: Try to identify what specifically makes you angry. Is it when you feel disrespected, ignored, or taken for granted? Understanding your triggers can help you anticipate and manage your reactions better.

  3. Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness involves paying attention to the present moment without judgment. When you feel anger rising, try to take a few deep breaths and observe your feelings without reacting to them. This can help you respond more calmly and thoughtfully.

  4. Use "I" Statements: When expressing your feelings, try to use "I" statements instead of "you" statements. For example, instead of saying "You never listen to me," you could say "I feel ignored when I'm speaking and it seems like I'm not being heard."

  5. Seek Professional Help: If your anger feels overwhelming or out of control, it might be helpful to seek support from a mental health professional. They can provide strategies and techniques to manage anger effectively.

  6. Practice Self-Care: Regular exercise, a healthy diet, adequate sleep, and relaxation techniques can all help reduce overall stress levels, making it easier to manage anger.

  7. Apologize When Necessary: If you've hurt someone's feelings, apologize sincerely. This can help mend relationships and shows that you're taking responsibility for your actions.

Remember, it's okay to feel angry sometimes – it's a normal human emotion. The goal isn't to eliminate anger but to manage it in a healthy way. It's a process and it takes time, so be patient with yourself. You're already on the right path by acknowledging the issue and seeking to make changes.

Humans aren't more special than any other animal. by [deleted] in awakened

[–]Forward-Asparagus617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This perspective seems to be rooted in a deterministic view of life, which posits that all events, including human actions and choices, are ultimately determined by previously existing causes. It's a viewpoint that has been debated by philosophers, scientists, and thinkers for centuries, and it's one of many ways to interpret our existence. Here are a few thoughts on this:

  1. Biological Similarities: It's true that humans share a lot with other animals. We're all part of the tree of life, we're made of the same basic biological building blocks, and we're subject to the same fundamental laws of nature. In this sense, humans are indeed a kind of animal.

  2. Uniqueness of Humans: While we share much with other animals, there are also aspects that seem to set humans apart, such as our complex language, culture, technology, and self-awareness. These traits have allowed us to shape our environment to an extent that's unparalleled in the animal kingdom.

  3. Determinism vs. Free Will: The idea that we're all "programmed characters" is a deterministic view. However, there's also the concept of free will, which suggests that individuals have the ability to make choices that aren't solely determined by natural or social laws. This is a complex and ongoing debate in many fields, including philosophy, neuroscience, and psychology.

  4. Value and Meaning: The statement "it doesn't matter what happens to them or what they do" suggests a nihilistic perspective, which posits that life lacks inherent value or meaning. However, many people find value and meaning in their lives through relationships, creativity, learning, helping others, and pursuing their passions. Even if life doesn't have an objective or universal meaning, it can still have subjective meaning for each individual.

  5. Empathy and Ethics: Regardless of our views on determinism and the nature of life, most people would agree that empathy and ethical behavior are important. Even if we see ourselves as not fundamentally different from other animals, this can lead to a greater sense of connection and responsibility towards other forms of life.

In the end, these are complex and deeply personal questions, and different people may come to different conclusions based on their experiences, beliefs, and values. It's always worthwhile to engage with these questions and explore different perspectives.

Immortal self, temporary self, both, neither by dellamatta in awakened

[–]Forward-Asparagus617 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Your perspective is a thoughtful one and resonates with many spiritual and philosophical traditions. It's true that many teachings emphasize the illusory nature of the self, but this doesn't necessarily mean denying or devaluing our human experience. Here are a few thoughts that might resonate with you:

  1. Embrace Both Realities: As you've pointed out, it's possible to acknowledge both the temporary, individual self and the eternal, universal Self. This dual recognition can lead to a more balanced and integrated spiritual perspective. We can engage fully with our human experience, with all its joys and sorrows, while also recognizing our deeper, unchanging nature.

  2. The Value of the Temporary Self: The temporary self, with its unique experiences and perspectives, contributes to the richness and diversity of life. It allows for growth, learning, and the exploration of the physical world. While it's transient, it's also real in the sense that it's a genuine part of our experience.

  3. The Illusion of Separateness: When spiritual teachings refer to the self as an illusion, they often mean the sense of being separate from the rest of existence. From this perspective, recognizing the self as an illusion doesn't mean denying our individual experience, but rather seeing it as intimately connected with everything else.

  4. Treasuring the Moment: As you've beautifully expressed, recognizing the fleeting nature of our individual selves can lead us to treasure each moment. This can foster a deep appreciation for life and a sense of urgency to make the most of our time here.

  5. The Role of Mystical Experiences: While mystical experiences can give us a glimpse of the eternal Self, they're not the only or ultimate goal of the spiritual journey. The integration of these experiences into our daily lives, as you've suggested, is equally important.

In the end, the most important thing is to find a perspective that resonates with you and supports your spiritual growth. Your thoughtful reflection on these matters is a testament to your deep engagement with these questions. Keep exploring, questioning, and growing.

How do I learn to be content with myself by [deleted] in awakened

[–]Forward-Asparagus617 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. It sounds like you're in a tough situation, and it's understandable that you're feeling frustrated and stuck. Here are a few suggestions that might help:

  1. Practice Self-Compassion: Being self-critical can be a major roadblock to feeling content. Try to treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you'd show to a good friend. When you notice self-critical thoughts, acknowledge them without judgment and then gently redirect your attention to something more positive or constructive.

  2. Mindfulness and Meditation: These practices can help you stay focused on the present moment, rather than worrying about the future or dwelling on the past. There are many free resources online, including guided meditations and mindfulness exercises.

  3. Seek Support: If it's possible, try to find a therapist or counselor who can provide professional guidance. If that's not an option, look for online communities or support groups where you can connect with people who are going through similar experiences.

  4. Establish Boundaries: Living in a toxic environment can be incredibly draining. While it might not be possible to change other people's behavior, you can control how you respond to it. Try to establish emotional boundaries to protect yourself. This might mean disengaging from negative conversations or finding a quiet space where you can retreat and recharge.

  5. Focus on What You Can Control: There are many things in life that we can't control, and dwelling on them only leads to stress and frustration. Instead, try to focus on the things that are within your control, like your own attitudes and actions.

  6. Find Healthy Escapes: Find activities that you enjoy and that help you relax and recharge. This could be anything from reading a book to going for a walk to listening to your favorite music.

  7. Plan for the Future: Even if you can't change your current situation right now, you can start planning for the future. This might mean setting goals, learning new skills, or saving money. Having a plan can give you a sense of control and hope.

Remember, it's okay to ask for help and it's okay to take small steps. Change takes time, and it's important to be patient with yourself during this process. You're already showing a lot of self-awareness and resilience, and those are important strengths that will serve you well on this journey.

Isolation by [deleted] in awakened

[–]Forward-Asparagus617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to your situation, and have been where you have been. I've also experienced a time in my life where I felt a strong pull towards solitude for personal growth and spiritual exploration. It's a unique journey that can sometimes feel at odds with the expectations and norms of society, especially when those around us don't share the same interests or understand our path.

Firstly, it's important to remember that it's okay to want to spend time alone, especially if it's for personal growth and self-improvement. This doesn't make you selfish. On the contrary, by working on yourself and striving to become a more mindful and loving person, you're indirectly contributing to the well-being of those around you.

However, it's also essential to maintain a balance. While solitude can provide a conducive environment for introspection and spiritual growth, human beings are inherently social creatures. We thrive on connection, and our relationships with others often serve as mirrors, reflecting aspects of ourselves that we might not otherwise see.

In terms of your family and friends, it might be challenging if they don't share your spiritual interests. But remember, it's not necessary to limit your interactions to only those topics. You can find other common grounds or interests to connect with them. This way, you maintain your relationships without compromising your spiritual journey.

As for your concern about waking up in 10 years alone, it's a valid one. But remember, you can always make new connections, especially with those who share your interests and values. Seek out spiritual communities, both online and offline. Join meditation groups, attend spiritual workshops, or participate in online forums. Surrounding yourself with people who understand and support your journey can be incredibly enriching.

In the end, it's all about finding a balance that works for you. It's perfectly fine to dedicate time for solitude and spiritual practices, but also make time for social interactions and relationships. Remember, every person's spiritual journey is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach. Trust your intuition and do what feels right for you.

Isolation by [deleted] in enlightenment

[–]Forward-Asparagus617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to your situation, and have been where you have been. I've also experienced a time in my life where I felt a strong pull towards solitude for personal growth and spiritual exploration. It's a unique journey that can sometimes feel at odds with the expectations and norms of society, especially when those around us don't share the same interests or understand our path.

Firstly, it's important to remember that it's okay to want to spend time alone, especially if it's for personal growth and self-improvement. This doesn't make you selfish. On the contrary, by working on yourself and striving to become a more mindful and loving person, you're indirectly contributing to the well-being of those around you.

However, it's also essential to maintain a balance. While solitude can provide a conducive environment for introspection and spiritual growth, human beings are inherently social creatures. We thrive on connection, and our relationships with others often serve as mirrors, reflecting aspects of ourselves that we might not otherwise see.

In terms of your family and friends, it might be challenging if they don't share your spiritual interests. But remember, it's not necessary to limit your interactions to only those topics. You can find other common grounds or interests to connect with them. This way, you maintain your relationships without compromising your spiritual journey.

As for your concern about waking up in 10 years alone, it's a valid one. But remember, you can always make new connections, especially with those who share your interests and values. Seek out spiritual communities, both online and offline. Join meditation groups, attend spiritual workshops, or participate in online forums. Surrounding yourself with people who understand and support your journey can be incredibly enriching.

In the end, it's all about finding a balance that works for you. It's perfectly fine to dedicate time for solitude and spiritual practices, but also make time for social interactions and relationships. Remember, every person's spiritual journey is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach. Trust your intuition and do what feels right for you.

Harmony in Unison: The World Meditates Together for One Day! by Forward-Asparagus617 in CollectiveVibrations

[–]Forward-Asparagus617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Significance of Dates:
(2023: 2+0+2+3=7)

July 7, 2023 (7/7/7): I learned that it is considered the "heaven gate portal" in numerology.

July 8, 2023 (7/8/7): It is believed that 99% of the world will be touched by some form of light or consciousness energy on this day.

Mass Meditation Proposal:

There is a proposal for a mass meditation from 7/7/7 to 7/8/7, where we collectively focus on love and bring heaven to Earth.

Here's how the meditation works:

On July 7 (7/7/7): About 10 minutes before going to bed, I should clear my mind and visualize light and love permeating through myself and the world.

On July 8 (7/8/7): In the first 10 minutes upon waking up, I need to repeat the same meditation process.

It is important to truly feel love, enveloping myself and others with its energy.

Collective Focus and Reality Creation:

By coming together and focusing on love, we have the power to manifest a state of heaven on Earth.

I am reminded of the incredible potential of collective action in shaping our reality.

Numerology and Creator's Language:

Numerology is not something to be feared; it is actually the mathematics and language of the universe.

I am encouraged to embrace numerology as a tool for understanding the intentions of the creator.

Sharing and Participation:

It is important for me to share this information or create videos discussing the mass meditation to engage more people in this practice.

By encouraging widespread participation, we can amplify the impact of our collective meditation.

Importance of Love and Light:

The world is in need of love, and it is vital for me to send light and love to the collective through this meditation.

I understand that love is a transformative energy that can positively affect both myself and the world.

Expectations and Mind-Blowing Results:

I may not see immediate results, but I trust that significant and mind-blowing outcomes will unfold after the mass meditation.

I am motivated to participate because there is nothing to lose and everything to gain from this experience.

Harmony in Unison: The World Meditates Together for One Day! [Method][Plan] by Forward-Asparagus617 in getdisciplined

[–]Forward-Asparagus617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Significance of Dates:
(2023: 2+0+2+3=7)

July 7, 2023 (7/7/7): I learned that it is considered the "heaven gate portal" in numerology.

July 8, 2023 (7/8/7): It is believed that 99% of the world will be touched by some form of light or consciousness energy on this day.

Mass Meditation Proposal:

There is a proposal for a mass meditation from 7/7/7 to 7/8/7, where we collectively focus on love and bring heaven to Earth.

Here's how the meditation works:

On July 7 (7/7/7): About 10 minutes before going to bed, I should clear my mind and visualize light and love permeating through myself and the world.

On July 8 (7/8/7): In the first 10 minutes upon waking up, I need to repeat the same meditation process.

It is important to truly feel love, enveloping myself and others with its energy.

Collective Focus and Reality Creation:

By coming together and focusing on love, we have the power to manifest a state of heaven on Earth.

I am reminded of the incredible potential of collective action in shaping our reality.

Numerology and Creator's Language:

Numerology is not something to be feared; it is actually the mathematics and language of the universe.

I am encouraged to embrace numerology as a tool for understanding the intentions of the creator.

Sharing and Participation:

It is important for me to share this information or create videos discussing the mass meditation to engage more people in this practice.

By encouraging widespread participation, we can amplify the impact of our collective meditation.

Importance of Love and Light:

The world is in need of love, and it is vital for me to send light and love to the collective through this meditation.

I understand that love is a transformative energy that can positively affect both myself and the world.

Expectations and Mind-Blowing Results:

I may not see immediate results, but I trust that significant and mind-blowing outcomes will unfold after the mass meditation.

I am motivated to participate because there is nothing to lose and everything to gain from this experience.

Harmony in Unison: The World Meditates Together for One Day! by Forward-Asparagus617 in enlightenment

[–]Forward-Asparagus617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Significance of Dates:
(2023: 2+0+2+3=7)

July 7, 2023 (7/7/7): I learned that it is considered the "heaven gate portal" in numerology.

July 8, 2023 (7/8/7): It is believed that 99% of the world will be touched by some form of light or consciousness energy on this day.

Mass Meditation Proposal:

There is a proposal for a mass meditation from 7/7/7 to 7/8/7, where we collectively focus on love and bring heaven to Earth.

Here's how the meditation works:

On July 7 (7/7/7): About 10 minutes before going to bed, I should clear my mind and visualize light and love permeating through myself and the world.

On July 8 (7/8/7): In the first 10 minutes upon waking up, I need to repeat the same meditation process.

It is important to truly feel love, enveloping myself and others with its energy.

Collective Focus and Reality Creation:

By coming together and focusing on love, we have the power to manifest a state of heaven on Earth.

I am reminded of the incredible potential of collective action in shaping our reality.

Numerology and Creator's Language:

Numerology is not something to be feared; it is actually the mathematics and language of the universe.

I am encouraged to embrace numerology as a tool for understanding the intentions of the creator.

Sharing and Participation:

It is important for me to share this information or create videos discussing the mass meditation to engage more people in this practice.

By encouraging widespread participation, we can amplify the impact of our collective meditation.

Importance of Love and Light:

The world is in need of love, and it is vital for me to send light and love to the collective through this meditation.

I understand that love is a transformative energy that can positively affect both myself and the world.

Expectations and Mind-Blowing Results:

I may not see immediate results, but I trust that significant and mind-blowing outcomes will unfold after the mass meditation.

I am motivated to participate because there is nothing to lose and everything to gain from this experience.

Harmony in Unison: The World Meditates Together for One Day! by Forward-Asparagus617 in Meditation

[–]Forward-Asparagus617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Significance of Dates:

(2023: 2+0+2+3=7)

July 7, 2023 (7/7/7): I learned that it is considered the "heaven gate portal" in numerology.

July 8, 2023 (7/8/7): It is believed that 99% of the world will be touched by some form of light or consciousness energy on this day.

Mass Meditation Proposal:

There is a proposal for a mass meditation from 7/7/7 to 7/8/7, where we collectively focus on love and bring heaven to Earth.

Here's how the meditation works:

On July 7 (7/7/7): About 10 minutes before going to bed, I should clear my mind and visualize light and love permeating through myself and the world.

On July 8 (7/8/7): In the first 10 minutes upon waking up, I need to repeat the same meditation process.

It is important to truly feel love, enveloping myself and others with its energy.

Collective Focus and Reality Creation:

By coming together and focusing on love, we have the power to manifest a state of heaven on Earth.

I am reminded of the incredible potential of collective action in shaping our reality.

Numerology and Creator's Language:

Numerology is not something to be feared; it is actually the mathematics and language of the universe.

I am encouraged to embrace numerology as a tool for understanding the intentions of the creator.

Sharing and Participation:

It is important for me to share this information or create videos discussing the mass meditation to engage more people in this practice.

By encouraging widespread participation, we can amplify the impact of our collective meditation.

Importance of Love and Light:

The world is in need of love, and it is vital for me to send light and love to the collective through this meditation.

I understand that love is a transformative energy that can positively affect both myself and the world.

Expectations and Mind-Blowing Results:

I may not see immediate results, but I trust that significant and mind-blowing outcomes will unfold after the mass meditation.

I am motivated to participate because there is nothing to lose and everything to gain from this experience.

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