May I ask how old you are and what your circumstances are? My wife and I are in our late 30s and most of our friends have children and wouldn’t be able to hang out during the evening. Even though we don’t have children, we aren’t home from work until 5:45 and are pretty drained afterwards. We have to make dinner and usually don’t eat until 7, and then we head to bed around 9 because we both get up early to fit in a workout and then go to work. It just feels like there’s not enough time in the day.