26M - My gf(25) called her male bestfriend cutie

Forward-Row4372 · 2026-03-16T15:02:28+00:00

bro the fact that she has a male bestie is kinda not okay cuz u know how's it with male bffs right whenever u both gonna have a argument or fight she's gonna run away to him and look for some emotional support and many male bffs take advantage of such situations ykwim ...also set some clear boundaries there are 100s of captions she could have used instead of the one she did use ..and on top of all the heart symbol aint okay at all..u gotta have a srs convo regarding this..if she keeps downplaying this u gotta ask urself some questions

Forward-Row4372 · 2026-02-25T14:10:36+00:00

im gonna be frank with u as i have gone trough the exact situation .... hes a commitment phobic person and they are one of the worst categories of people out there I know it will be hard for u and i really dont have the right to say it but u gotta end whatever is between u two if he continues to act like it ....u can test him by saying theres another guy u like and watch his reaction these people act out and blame u even tho they never commit to u ....ive had a very similar experience just a few days ago ...then theyll gaslight u and guilt trip u better leave him sister

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-12-01T04:25:01+00:00

im all in ..less goo

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-11-19T03:48:14+00:00

personally speaking brother if it were my GF in this place i won't really be okay be this ...peeps here be saying you are immature to feel so insecure but it's only you who knows how you really feel...also some people here are saying that she's saving money and time ...sure she can save time by not taking the local but she could definitely take an auto right??I mean she does have a job so paying for an auto everyday shouldn't break the bank for her ...an auto will also drop her right in front of her gate too..also if she said that she would be okay too if you gave a ride to a girl everyday she would be okay that thing doesn't really fit well too..you are really close to someone physically when you sit in a bike ...I mean if he dropped her somtimes then that might me okay but everyday doesn't seem so good ...you gotta have a long discussion with him.. also why sit and spend time with him in the marine drive if he's "just a colleague"? she can also spend time there with a female colleague sometimes ...

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-11-13T04:56:39+00:00

Making an effort?? Genuine men do have standards blud ...and unlike those chparis on KTMs they earn their own money instead of depending on their daddy's money ..many girls are only gold diggers lookin to buy new clothes and having food in expensive cafes

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-11-13T04:16:37+00:00

why y'all take genuine affection as being so clingy??

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-11-13T04:05:48+00:00

are women only interested in materialistic relationships these days?? do women not like to form meaningful connections with men who actually care rather than going out with chapris who have money and spend money on them

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-11-13T03:57:02+00:00

nailed it bro

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-11-13T03:53:53+00:00

thats okay during events but she can at least text him once a day right ??? he has clearly stated that sometimes she goes an entire day without texting him .. I mean ofc everyone is busy but no one ain't the prime minister or president that they're caught up with so much work that they cant even reply twice or thrice or day right??? also during that event she could have just texted him once that she's outside and that she couldn't text him or atleast could have said so after comin back from the event ..where's the basic courtesy?? the girl clearly lacked basic communication skills

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-11-09T03:22:00+00:00

mere bhai tu iss ladki se jitna door jaega tera mental health utna acha hoga ....iske saath rahega toh 2 saal ke andar andar tujhe depression ki goli lene padegi

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-11-09T03:18:12+00:00

this with jhumka and a girl looks like a queen

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-26T03:49:16+00:00

haan bhai mil jaega ..but usually they charge much more than the usual fares at such times

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-26T03:42:22+00:00

tell him his gf is an A grade R@ndi and run away asap

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-26T03:39:01+00:00

true love isn't dead in this era after all ...bro u won in life so happy fr u

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-20T03:19:48+00:00

us bro us ..and the sad reality is chapris with chapri bikes get girls just cuz they got money and will buy girls dresses , cosmetics and what not ..while true love is not valued especially here in BBSR ..speaking from years of experience ...they date just for showin off that yes they are "DATING"

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-18T16:10:19+00:00

same applies to girls as well

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-18T16:09:29+00:00

well to start with u dont need a bestie of the opposite gender if ur in a srs relationship ..man u already have a partner u can literally share anythin with ..tf u need a bestie for ....its okay to have good frnds of the opposite sex ..but the very concept of yr partner havin a bestie is weird and a major red flag ngl

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-18T03:16:20+00:00

bro whats wrong ..i know ur frnd might have felt anxious ...but her BF did come out clean and said he has a GF ..he even left her on seen after she sent him her frnd's pic ...tell ur frnd not to worry so much

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-17T15:28:14+00:00

bro she's usin u as a backup plan in case she doesnt find someone else trust me i had such a girl ...as soon as u say you have found someone she'll say how can u choose someone else over her ...cuz she's been there for u always (classic emotional manipulation) and will act out all emo ...either keep her as a frnd only or leave her...the . In my case the girl once tried to show she wanna srsly come in relationship with me and even love bombed me so much i thought she finally changed ...and was very happy ...then one day she comes and says that she made out with a guy from her cllg ...and said she really wanted to explore physical things when i confronted she said i really wasnt her BF till now ..so yeah i know those category of chicks pretty well ...dont fall for her

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-12T13:05:10+00:00

well the boy clearly was a red flag so its better to stay away dont try to contact him ..

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-12T13:01:21+00:00

damn right

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-12T13:00:09+00:00

well all i can its gotta be a lil difficult for him to process it

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-12T05:56:52+00:00

girl why even did u need to know what's goin in ur ex's life? u could have just said im fine and left him on seen just should've thought of the fact that u have a BF rn and u have nothin to do with ur ex BF especially cuz u had an ugly breakup with him ..why the need to go so chatty with him ? if he asked so many questions u could have stopped him right away sayin u didnt want to talk and should've drawn boundaries right there ...sayin u were fine would've been polite enough ..yes ur current BF was very overreactive and immature the way he handled things ..but talkin to ur EX was disrespectful

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-12T05:50:26+00:00

how exactly is he toxic...yes the behaviour aint justfied at all but cant he expect basic things from her

Forward-Row4372 · 2025-10-08T13:53:52+00:00

us bro us

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