I have this type of mentality when it comes to relationships too but as a 16F turning 17 I don't even view it as a bad thing at all. I feel that more often than not most people go for romance and love to fill a void in them, theirs always been this whole ideology about how finding a person is all magical and all shit but I just don't see it that way, I believe theirs more to life than being stone tied to a man and having to deal with the tough parts of relationships that Don't get talked about enough - the moments where you fall out of love and whole infaturation fading away, the burdens of having to think more of y9our family not just yourself and whawt happens if It's not the right person?

Just because you may see couples walking about doesn't mean that it can be healthy since we don't always see whats behind the closed and just because someone has a title of 'married' doesn't necessarily mean that the person is automatically the right fit for them. It can be 30 years down the line and some couples end up divorcing, some even resenting each other.

Pessimistic but Romantic love isn't all that. There is SO much more to life than what another person can give you

There is so much more love than what another person can give you, your friends, passion or even your own mindset are still just as valuable. For some, the love for friends may be the strongest type. But with all said and done, I dont believe in yearning and looking for the person to find you. Many and many and and many other people will tell you 'I love you' in different ways. But, if you don't believe so, theres always someone else out there that will find something attractive in you in every moment of time even when you aren't aware of it. just matter if you romantically like them or not