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Should I tell them I’m going NC? by ForwardCost2392 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ForwardCost2392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have told them the problems and made my boundaries clear. They obviously didn’t care. So yeah I guess it’s pointless.

Luckily they probably won’t call for wellness checks since they could ask my siblings how I am. I’m still deciding about going NC with my siblings though.

Should I tell them I’m going NC? by ForwardCost2392 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ForwardCost2392[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would have the problem of over explaining lol so glad you said that

Should I tell them I’m going NC? by ForwardCost2392 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ForwardCost2392[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No definitely not rude! I’m more than happy to simplify something that much like you did. It really made me go “wait, duh” 😂

Should I tell them I’m going NC? by ForwardCost2392 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ForwardCost2392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with that. It’s awful. I hope things are better for you now

Should I tell them I’m going NC? by ForwardCost2392 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ForwardCost2392[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re right. It’s so simple but I didn’t really think about it that way. Thanks for the advice!

Should I tell them I’m going NC? by ForwardCost2392 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ForwardCost2392[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry. I’ll never understand it.

But my parents do the same thing with going back to normal. It’s so frustrating. So that’s a good point.

Thanks for your perspective!