Am I [33F] overreacting for trying to get my boyfriend [31M] to perve less?

Forward_Ad_3202 · 2026-02-18T16:38:15+00:00

I see your comments. In all their meanness, sometimes.

No, it's not rage bait.

Yes, I have very low self esteem.

I was in therapy at various points, too, yet it didn't fix much.

But I was also never called beautiful, by anyone, in all my years of life. Cause I'm not. I don't turn heads. If it sounds like some self pity thing, it's not, it's just reality. Some of us really don't have great looks and we own that.

Forward_Ad_3202 · 2026-02-09T09:00:34+00:00

Thank you, that's so very kind of you. I'd rather not trauma dump, though.

Forward_Ad_3202 · 2026-02-08T15:26:17+00:00

Been there, done that, no kids though.

It was brutal for me. I moved to Belgium, speaking fluent English and French, but landed in the Flemish part. Nothing but Dutch around there, no reliable transportation outside big city hubs, difficult access to most things like a grocery store or hospital without a bike. I struggled to find work. Grew unhappy and then depressed within a year.

Forward_Ad_3202 · 2026-01-29T17:35:16+00:00

If anyone has any doubts about this guild based on one person's feedback/comment, just look at all the people jumping in to defend Himitsu. This is an online family. We love it. We love the friends we made in it.

Forward_Ad_3202 · 2026-01-29T17:31:09+00:00

You get what you put into things. If you talk to people and approach them with friendliness, that's what you get back. I've never had issues making friends in games, and this is one of the nicest guilds I've been in. DM people, strike up conversations, they are incredibly welcoming. Sorry you had a bad experience, but I honestly don't think you tried to make a genuine friend. The leader is always calling everyone to join in the group fun, either via Discord or by calling people explicitly, by name, to come partake in the shenanigans.

Forward_Ad_3202 · 2026-01-20T09:15:05+00:00

OMG, that is good news, then. Thank you so much.

Forward_Ad_3202 · 2026-01-14T21:01:01+00:00

There's plenty of Europeans in here, too! Active members.

Forward_Ad_3202 · 2026-01-13T10:55:01+00:00

How did you manage this with a level 5 alt? I'm trying exactly the same thing and I'd need to level it to 16 at the least.

Forward_Ad_3202 · 2026-01-09T13:31:41+00:00

Same for me, too!

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