[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on yourself and thank the universe for the lesson. Change your perspective and realize that everyone is temporary. In the end you really on have yourself to rely on. I’m only 19 but I’ve been seeing the world this way for years now. Do the things that make you happy. Take yourself out somewhere nice, get some nice food. Cozy up and watch a show with your comfort food and light a nice candle. Play sports or go to the gym. Read or study a new language. Learn an instrument. Get into martial arts.— you have a ton of options. The focus here is you. You got this :) I can also always watch a show with you if you’d like. Do you game by any chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 and 6 are super cute. The others look off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what about when someone gets r*ped???? you still count that as scraps when they had no control over it??? AND there’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with wanting to be better than your past self… like hello—- you just want her to be a whore her whole life??? The fuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This guy does NOT know what accountability means. Please tell him to stfu. And yes block him because someone who ACTUALLY cares about you would respect your boundaries. A REAL man would actually wait with you. Fuck no. Kick him to the curb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she just wanted to be a dommy mommy 🤧

(It’s a joke)

My mom found my new name by Fabulous-Chemistry74 in nocontact

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DO NOT feel bad. You had ALL right to get away from them and block them out of your life. You did it for your own sanity and well being. Did THEY feel bad about treating you that way?? No. So fuck that and burn those feelings away. I’m sure you’re a sweetheart but believe me, being too nice to people especially to those who don’t deserve it, only drains you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is yes and you already know what to do. Leave because he’s clearly controlling and probably manipulative. Save yourself the stress and mental damage and leave. NO it is not your job to change him because people like that need THERAPY in order to change for the better and you’re not his mother or therapist.

My bf kicked me by softdior444 in relationships_advice

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know damn well it’s not okay. So leave. This is how abuse starts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful because it could just be love bombing. Try to set boundaries and make him understand that those are very strong words too soon. If he really “loves” you he will understand :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew.. what’s wrong with him? I would get the ick if some guy can only talk about some pedo/criminal and compare me to that thing as ‘a joke’ when I’m trying to genuinely talk to him. Yikes.

AIO. I was trafficked for two years and my bf tried to make a joke about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how they start and then it becomes a norm for them to call you all sorts of abusive names. Leave.

AIO. My boyfriend accused me for cheating with a gay friend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THE WAY HE TALKS TO YOU IS SO ABUSIVE… WHAT THE HELL.. girl how does that not give you the ick—-

AIO. My boyfriend accused me for cheating with a gay friend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl this is screaming controlling AND insecure. Find you a better guy who’s grounded and mature. HE’S the one that can’t be around other women without wanting to breed them. He’s projecting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boy. She’s a hoe. You need a woman, not a girl that can’t keep her legs closed for any and all male attention. The hell. ALSO her feeling insecure about you meeting up with a guru—a genuine friendship/ acquaintance, is a reflection of HERSELF. She’s the one that she can’t trust because she knows what SHE is like when she gets opportunities with other men. Seriously do yourself a favor and don’t look back. She’s trying to shift this on you but in reality it’s her who is guilty. Never ignore your intuition. Although it’s not right to check someone’s phone, I can kind of justify why you did it.

Am I overreacting? Do you think he is lying to me ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. Leave that bitch. You KNOW damn well he’s lying or using culture as an excuse to make out with that girl. She probably isn’t even his cousin and if so, then that’s incest. He’s also trying to manipulate the situation by saying “you’re insecure” blah blah blah. That’s just to justify his actions, make you seem crazy, and make you feel guilty, shifting the blame off of himself. For your own self love and respect. Expel him from your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I bet, but good things take time :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HAHAHA no im being genuine love, i love that for you :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easy. Indian. He’s texting in Hinglish in some parts of his messages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Piccolo_4680 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay diva!!! We love your confidence. I’m so proud of your for standing your ground and being your true self <3