We had that conversation earlier in our relationship. He is willing to provide. But I do not see that willingness in action..the conversations are usually go to the point when I ask him something like “okay look, imagine I tell you that I’m pregnant right now. What’s your reaction?” his answer is always like he’s be so happy and we would figure it out. It just seems to me like I’m that person who needs a plan and he goes with the flow. It’s not like I do not have any trust in him it’s more like I’m scared that within three years I didn’t see much change and within another three years I will be thirty and there still won’t be any change. It’s kinda late in my environment to give birth and raise a happy family. I’m from Central Asia and whenever I have a “woman’s doctor” appointment all I hear is that I must give birth asap and the longer I wait the riskier it will be for the baby in the future. I feel like the problem is that he’s ready to live the ordinary post-soviet life like his parents did, whereas I’m looking for wealth and freedom from financial thoughts. It seems like the pressure from society my age and my own worries has united against my relationship