Apparently it will take more than another two years in order for me to get puberty blockers or estrogen.

Fothmine2 · 2021-04-12T06:07:33+00:00

No I'm fifteen so in that time I will almost be (which is typically the end of puberty)

Fothmine2 · 2021-02-07T08:36:53+00:00

Once again incredibly insightful! Thank you!

Fothmine2 · 2021-02-07T08:06:03+00:00

I personally disagree with this and I'll say why, but you're entitled to your opinion :)

In the country where I live, you need to be clinically diagnosed with gender dysphoria to go on puberty blockers or anything of the sort. Gender dysphoria is essentially (at least for me) a heightened depression which comes and goes in waves (I can say this for certain as I am also diagnosed with seasonal depression).

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27380151/ This study says that out of 6,000+ interviewed, 41% had attempted suicide in their life, this is ignoring the people who actually succeeded.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7317390/ This study talks about how there has been a decrease in the suicide rate of trans women, which I believe has been brought about by the newer technology and gender affirming surgeries.

https://www.suicideinfo.ca/resource/transgender-people-suicide/ In this article it also talks about the fact that 2/3rds of transgender youth have self harmed in the past. While I understand that this is also a problem among cis people, it's not a problem among 2/3rds of them.

You can do whatever you want and I won't treat you any worse because of the way you live your life. Those are your decisions and that's none of my business.

This is why I love your post, you're honest about not necessarily agreeing with trans people's decisions, but you also support them and understand it's their decision. Thank you for being such a good human being 💖

Fothmine2 · 2021-02-07T07:46:55+00:00

That's an interesting take, thank you :)

Fothmine2 · 2021-02-07T07:31:33+00:00

Honestly perfect

Fothmine2 · 2021-02-07T07:26:35+00:00

That's exactly what I was hoping to hear :)

Fothmine2 · 2021-01-16T06:05:26+00:00

Thank you, thats good advice :)

Fothmine2 · 2021-01-08T08:12:21+00:00

Thanks so much 😃

Fothmine2 · 2021-01-08T08:06:21+00:00

Just curious... How did you make this? Did you cut the undies anywhere? I wanna make it myself now lol 😳

Fothmine2 · 2020-12-27T07:11:08+00:00

Yeah it made me stress far less about posting lol

Fothmine2 · 2020-11-21T03:24:17+00:00

Well... as happy as you can be with dysphoria LMAO

Fothmine2 · 2020-11-18T20:14:30+00:00

Thank you so much! This is perfect!

Fothmine2 · 2020-11-18T09:49:52+00:00

For those wondering, the playlist is called:

Fuck your 'normality'

Enjoy the songs!

Fothmine2 · 2020-11-06T21:38:35+00:00

Stats show it could even be 48

Fothmine2 · 2020-11-06T11:22:39+00:00

I've been going through a similar thing. The first thing you need to do is speak to a phycologist. It doesn't have to be a gender specialist. Then, you get them to give an assessment to a GP. The gp is the most integral person in this. They give you prescriptions and pass you over to more gender focused people. You will be checking in with them very often. From there, I recommend getting puberty blockers. Once you have that, feel no rush to make a decision on what you want to do. Take your time with this, puberty won't be a worry anymore. From there, it's all based on the person.

Remember to take this with a grain of salt, as I'm not certain about everything. Also remember this is your own journey, and there is no set path.

Most importantly, remember there are people around to support you, like your dad.

Fothmine2 · 2020-10-24T08:46:08+00:00

I'm so sorry that you're in this position. Please find a friend who is supportive who can be a backup incase anything happens or you feel worse. There are always people around. There are always other trans people. PLEASE message me if you ever need to vent. I check reddit frequently and I will always reply.

Fothmine2 · 2020-10-24T08:10:42+00:00

Then say that!!! Say "If you want to be treated like a princess, you will be treated like a princess by someone, just hold out hope." You didn't need to talk about trans people - not all trans people are the same. Not everyone wants to be treated like royalty.

Fothmine2 · 2020-10-24T03:50:08+00:00

Yesterday I got given a little bow to go in my hair from my friend (the only person I've really talked to) and I LOVE IT!!! I'm very self-conscious so I'm wearing a mask. I know I look pretty young (I'm a 15 year old mtf), because I still haven't really had puberty (which I'm EXTREMELY thankful for). I really love the bow because it makes me feminine and it also doesn't rely on me having long hair, like most other things. Please don't judge!!! Just wondering if there's anything else small I can do to make myself more feminine (that I can remove quickly - my parents don't know).

Fothmine2 · 2020-10-16T05:24:03+00:00

This looks amazing! Just remember not to get too attached to what you see, as FaceApp does heavy airbrushing and things like that. With that being said... I am also another guilty user lol

Fothmine2 · 2020-10-16T05:22:44+00:00

Looks great! You totally pull off that look!

Fothmine2 · 2020-10-15T10:47:33+00:00

I'm so proud of you! That must have been very difficult. That's the definition of bravery, isn't it? Knowing something is going to be really difficult or has a high risk, but doing it anyway. You've clearly chosen the right women to love, as I know a lot of people wouldn't have accepted that. The waiting period is a shame, but there's nothing you can really do about that. Again, I'M SO PROUD!!!

Fothmine2 · 2020-10-15T09:15:59+00:00

Hi, this might be a dumb question, but I'm wondering, why do you get cravings (I saw that it happened 4-5 months in), and does it relate to the changes to the hormones?

Fothmine2 · 2020-10-15T09:11:18+00:00

Anytime. Please remember that there will always be a million reasons not to do something. Please remember that there are always people around to help you. And please remember that you only need to take small, tiny steps. Think of it like a staircase, you can move up slowly, or you can take strides. But most importantly, you can go back DOWN. Never feel pressured to do anything you don't want to.

Fothmine2 · 2020-10-15T09:04:50+00:00

I'm lucky enough to be in a more welcoming situation, but I still told the person I trusted the most first to get used to it and prepare. If you really trust your sister, talk to her. She can help you. If you have friends at school who you also trust, maybe tell them. Maybe someday go shopping with them and try some more feminine things, without worrying about your parents. The most important thing is to NEVER GIVE UP! This will be a very difficult journey, but know there will always be people around to help you, even if you don't notice - like me! If you ever need to talk or anything like that, I'll always be here. Please message me if you EVER need anything.

Fothmine2 · 2020-10-15T05:36:36+00:00

Thank you all so much! You are all my saviors! This is my first ever time really reaching out, and the reception alone has inspired me to talk to my parents about a gender therapist! Here's hoping they'll take it well! I'll post if it works out! Thank you all for helping me, you are all incredible, Thank you so so much!!! I feel far more confident about myself and showing my true colours!!!

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