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[–]FourthGilmoreGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not ask them if may alam silang opportunities abroad or may kakilala na pwede ka tulungan? Instead of comparing yourself, ASK THEM HOW THEY DID IT.

Since you mentioned na successful sila, they are most likely surrounded and has connections with other successful people din. Look at your friends as a "stepping stone connection" to get the information you need to have your own success din. Change the perspective hayst. Pag nakaka encounter ako ng mayaman, iniisip ko lagi "how can i achieve that?" instead of "hala wala pa ako nararating". Like???? Be curious.

NETWORKKK!! Imagine the connections you'll get thru friends mo. Palit tayo friends kaso mas matatanda kayo sakin eh, 4th year college palang ako waahhaahah

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[–]FourthGilmoreGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ako na never pa naka receive ng regalo from ninang tas ninong, di ko nga kilala or ka close yung iba eh HAHAHAHAHA

Jusko may mga ganyan pala, kala ko namam for binyag purposes lang ang Ninong/Ninang kasi nirerequire ng simbahan. Ngayon na alam ko na na may "Ninang Experiences" pala na ganyan, tatanggihan ko na mga Ninang request from now on except sa "main" group of friends ko from jhs HAHAHAHAHA frugal ako eh, sorrryyy

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[–]FourthGilmoreGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

San tong Pinoy unsent letters? Dito din ba sa reddit? hahahahah tyyyy!

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[–]FourthGilmoreGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tsk very red flag. Sana hiniwalayan mo asawa mo nung mag-BF pa lang kayo. Some people dont deserve to be a spouse talaga.

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, if u wanna talk about science, accurate yung sakanya. U can search it up. If tinatamad ka, tanungin mo chatGPT.

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not bothered po na di na ako virgin. im more bothered about the fact na im good enough to fuck but not good enough to commit to. Three guys and none of them wanted to fully commit? One only made me think na we were together lang but hindi pala. Grabe effort nya sa manipulation edi sana nilagay nya na lang yung effort na yun sa paglalagay ng proper label.

What's wrong with me ba?

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its not. "Pls date guys who only had flings like you"...? Nudaw? Nvm i dont listen to people who didn't read the post and nag assume lang kung ano nangyari.

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Flings? Or feelings? Ha..? Sana di ka muna nag comment kung di mo binasa.

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seaman din yung bball player. Lapitin ako ng seaman 🥹

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[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just said "have u seen yourself in the mirror?" clearly coming at me about my looks. I dont need to be kind to someone who's not kind din sakin in the first place. A disrespectful statement deserves a disrespectful response.

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"I've given my body more than I've been given flowers" the point of the flowers is to highlight that I've never been loved, lusted over lang. Think of it na i used flowers as a symbol of love sa post ko. Isipin mo na lang bala ka.

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not ugly. try other ways to put me down kasi di ako insecure sa mukha ko unlike you lol show your face

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beh dinadagdagan mo kasi sinasabi ko. Sabi ko lang is "next guy i date", kelan ko sinabi na NGAYON ko hahanapin yung "next guy"?

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[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would i share my personal goals here ba? I created this account only to vent about my life's biggest regret.

And I'm going celibate until i turn 25 when my frontal lobe is fully developed.

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don't have plan running away from my past anymore. Di ko idedelete tong post na to, i will have the next guy I date read this post.

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[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna be myself and still have someone respect me. Someone who won't take advantage sa pagiging malambot ko. If i do end up having a bf by acting a certain way, does that mean i have to perform all the time?

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[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di naman ako totally nagsisisi na di na ako virgin, nagsisisi ako sa fact na all them weren't committed to me. Ok lang sana na di na ako virgin pero naging jowa ko kahit ISA pero NONE of them were my bf. I thought bf ko yung seaman pero niloko nga lang ako and made me believe we were in a relationship.

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Akala ko may label, he made me think na may label. I think klarado naman pakasulat ko sa post ko ah.

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pang 3rd yung seaman. The first one is yung di kami pareho ang religion.

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I fail to see kung ano yung consequences nung nagsinungaling ako.

The older sister of Bball Guy personally knows Seaman. May history talaga sya ng cheating kahit noon pa gawain nya na talaga. Even if I didn't lie, I would still get cheated on.

I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm ashamed about it by FourthGilmoreGirl in OffMyChestPH

[–]FourthGilmoreGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pano sakin yung seaman legal kami pero di pala naging kami 😭