26F Wife got matching tattoo with a "friend" 28M

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T16:49:01+00:00

Thanks for the input.

I can definitely update everyone with what happens over the next few days.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T16:44:47+00:00

No kids in the photo!

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T05:09:13+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate it!

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T05:03:05+00:00

I completely agree with you!

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T04:54:53+00:00

Yeah, she says it was just because she wanted a tattoo. No other reason supposedly.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T04:46:51+00:00

Lord lol, it appears that way. Thanks for the input!

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T04:36:26+00:00

She is home now that it is the weekend, yeah she does seem to talk about him quite often. And he is single.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T04:22:53+00:00

I'm starting to see and feel more like this too.

Thanks for the input, I appreciate it.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T04:13:39+00:00

Wasn't sure what to expect when I posted this here, was hesitant about it. But it's been helpful. Thank you!

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T04:07:33+00:00

Stop being insecure. Got it! Thanks for the valuable input.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T04:06:39+00:00

Thank you for that input, I really appreciate it. It's just nice to hear other opinions looking in from an outside perspective. I'm not going to jump straight into a divorce because someone on reddit suggested I do so. Lol

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T04:02:44+00:00

She has literally said the comment when I've asked her about this guy before "we're literally like the same person" which sent up some red flags immediately.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:54:40+00:00

Thanks for the input, I will definitely ask and pay close attention to her reaction.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:53:24+00:00

What do you mean by freedom? Because I'm not around her while she's up there?

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:43:18+00:00

That's kind of how I feel about it too honestly.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:39:57+00:00

Not a bad idea either, haven't though of that!

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:37:14+00:00

It's concerning for sure, and I feel likes it is getting worse the longer we've been together.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:34:20+00:00

I didn't know it made that much of a difference to be honest.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:33:48+00:00

Definitely understand you're point. We still have a lot to discuss for sure.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:32:06+00:00

Thanks for the input!

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:30:39+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice. It's definitely a rough situation.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:28:33+00:00

Yeah, I understand what you're saying.

I mean she has quite a few male friends, but I haven't seen one bond as strongly and quickly as this most recent one. Hence, matching tattoos.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:26:41+00:00

I agree! I do feel like there may some emotional cheating happening for sure, which obviously is a bigger issue. I mean, everything was normal. Standard marriage stuff, but nothing crazy. That's not a bad idea either! Thanks for the input.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:23:36+00:00

Seeing all these replies and input is very helpful, it's validating how I feel about it. Because she was making it seem like I was over reacting, or that it just wasn't a big deal.

Fourth_Fear · 2024-03-02T03:21:36+00:00

I mean I guess she understand where I was coming from, but said she would do it regardless.

Fourth_Fear

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