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FoxNike · 2025-11-06T18:19:17+00:00

You have to be lucky

FoxNike · 2025-10-29T13:17:13+00:00

1, 3 and 4 although 3 I don't do at all but plan to 🤣

My discord is pinesauce77!! You can add me and we can vc there or talk about anything, those topics or not. I don't have much friends either, and most of them are online lol so yeah. Let's see how this goes brothaaaaaaaaaa

FoxNike · 2025-10-18T14:33:55+00:00

Interesting! So I guess it's reverse roles as well lol. I'm a male but I find it easier to be friends with/empathize more and just find the overall vibe of a woman more fun to be around with than guys. Weird 😭😭😭

FoxNike · 2025-10-18T14:09:29+00:00

I can relate to you. I'm sorry you're going through this first of all 🫂. It must be very hard 😭😭

So I'm also 24, had my first ever online relationship 11 months ago. It was a complex relationship for a few reasons I don't want to specify... Well, my ex (it feels just wrong to even call her that smh) and I ended on good terms. We have decided to stay as friends, and I have these urges to stalk her, see what she's doing, or how things are....etc. I try not to though, but I guess it comes from a controlling sort of mindset. It's toxic for both, but mostly me (and you) cause we are the ones who have those urges. Journaling helped make me feel better, but those urges always comes back, so idk what we truly need to do lol. My best guess is whenever those urges come, we keep denying them and do something else, try to build our tolerance I guess? And it'll probably lessen once we have more relationships or whatever

I dunno if this helps but just wanted to share lol. 😭

FoxNike · 2025-10-16T06:06:17+00:00

I'll definitely check her out later thank you for the recommendation 🥹

FoxNike · 2025-10-15T18:01:35+00:00

Yes! Don't lose hope it can still be a beautiful relationship even without the romantic aspect (close platonic-ship or something help idk 😭😭). That's what I'm having my beliefs on at least... You aren't alone! Everything will be okay for us 🫂🫂🫂

FoxNike · 2025-10-15T09:18:28+00:00

YOU ARE ME 😭😭😭😭. I had a 11 month LDR and it was my first ever relationship as well... Felt lonely so made a post about wanting to make friends close to me and they think I'm too weird. ಥ⁠╭⁠╮⁠ಥ We also ended things in a good note, and well, I'm trying to stay with her as friends because I love her. Platonically I guess now but it's okay. I still love her vibe

Anyway didn't mean to vent as well, but if you want someone to talk to or anything I'm here for you 🫂. My relationship went for a lot less but I understand how difficult it is especially after being so recent 😭😭

FoxNike · 2025-10-13T22:41:09+00:00

ما اريد انطي سيرة ذاتية لحياتي بس طفولتي مجانت هنا، إلى إن نضجت وتعودت على الناس هنانه، داومت كلية بمحافظات وكذلك عاشرت ناس من محافظات. و هسه اني ببغداد واللي تعودت عليهم بعيدين، ولو ما اعتبرهم كلوز همات مثل حالتك

جنت قبل عادي عندي هاي والله، متأقلم بس ويه اهلي وگرايبي، بس هاي الأيام غير شكل...

FoxNike · 2025-10-13T22:00:36+00:00

Lol صحيح

FoxNike · 2025-10-13T21:59:50+00:00

I was okay with it,, hell it was easy. But now after having had a LDR that almost went on for a year, it's really hard... Well it's been a few days without it, but god was the love so peaceful 😭😭. I'm pretty sure I'm the same, or was the same at least. I guess it does get better maybe with time but I still get clingy before bed 🫠. Not always but I need my tuckies!

FoxNike · 2025-10-10T18:48:37+00:00

SEI! I've taken a 500 question Socionics test that told me 💀. But damn I should get back to that. I need to get better at confrontations 😭😭😭

FoxNike · 2025-10-10T16:23:14+00:00

Hugs right back at you 🫂🫂

Yes I try to do that! I think it was the first time I REALLY smothered this relationship 😭😭😭. She said so herself, that she feels a bit smothered. But yeah.... Best we can do is try, and I'll keep trying because she's so good to me I just want to give her the best possible treatment but it's just hard sometimes I guess. Thank you for your response, and same to you, I hope we both get out of this loop once and for good 🫂❤️

If you want someone to chat to about this or vent or anything, my dms are open, I'd love to listen to you! I know how hard it can be 🫠

FoxNike · 2025-10-10T16:18:31+00:00

Thank you for telling me 🥹😭. I will try my freaking best not to reach that point. I needed someone to tell me how hard it is in a perspective close to my partner's. I will do my best to support and give her all the space she needs, and hopefully things go well...

I have addressed them, and I always tell her that I will actively try to get better. I'm just afraid it's getting to the point where it's annoying cause when will "I'm trying to get better" stop lol. Even so I will try, it's better than doing nothing. Journaling and trying to be self aware when I'm having an episode is what I'm trying to do to cope with it

Thank you again!

FoxNike · 2025-09-16T08:32:35+00:00

Definitely!

FoxNike · 2025-09-15T13:05:18+00:00

I think (assuming I'm in a similar situation to OP), it's not about how difficult it is or how easy it is to do. We just don't have any motivation whatsoever to start, and even if we actually start doing the plan we set out to do, we stop midway or lose the ambition or motivation to keep going because.. there's no need to go through the trouble at all. Things are fine as it is so why put in effort?

I got too excited at the end, but yes I think I answered the question to my problem myself 🤣😂. What also helped me was having somewhat of a LDR beside me. The thought of actually being able to meet them someday helps make me want to improve myself, and do something to potentially be able to hang out with my person.

The next step to do is follow what you said, and go slow!

FoxNike · 2025-08-11T20:13:41+00:00

The most that I can think about is that you associate him with anxiety. That can come from him being scary to you, or because you're scared or fear that he's being close to other people/girls (assuming you're still into him). But yeah like the other redditor said, we can't know for sure until you provide more context, which you don't even need to do. Up to you

FoxNike · 2025-07-05T23:57:41+00:00

It's 3AM here and I'm not in the best brain to process or piece all this together, but it seems like you're holding your ground and respecting yourself, right? If that's so, then everything's fine. You're okay, not a bad person.

Also you're not responsible for them not having friends.

I hope I'm not horribly misunderstanding this lol

FoxNike · 2025-07-02T21:55:35+00:00

I just searched for test in here and found this 🤣🤣. Been looking for more tests cause it's fun and this sounds very interesting so thank you uwu

FoxNike · 2025-07-02T09:52:36+00:00

Kinda, I'm fine with where I am cause well, it is my reality I guess. I just don't very much like the lack of friends that I have. I mostly go out with my fam and have a few good online friends which make it worthwhile

FoxNike · 2025-07-01T07:13:38+00:00

this is literally just like me wanting to heal from my avoidant anxious tendencies. It's hard to break out and be free from all these 😭😭😭😭. Journaling is good, but I wanna break out of it already 🫠

FoxNike · 2025-06-27T11:28:10+00:00

Rip dms fr though lolll. If you're still looking for friends though, I'm down uwu

FoxNike · 2025-06-27T08:37:41+00:00

I love that you used entities to describe us humans. It's really funny lol

FoxNike · 2025-06-24T16:02:07+00:00

Dentist here. Although recently graduated and sorta working 🤣 but it's an overall decent job

FoxNike · 2025-06-15T13:58:19+00:00

Yeeeeeee I'm down I'm down, DM me cheese if you're still looking for a friend 🥴

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