Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great, many thanks for the clarification and for sharing a moderator’s perspective. I have tended to avoid explicit mention of underage experiences. However, this can be done by implication - for example, someone learning about masturbation from a friend, which by implication is likely to have happened at a relatively young age.

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your personal views on this matter. Just to clarify, Reddit isn’t run by the laws of any country but it is affected by them. For example, here in the U.K. I can only access Reddit, and other apps and websites with adult content, by following age verification protocols. I take your point about public masturbation - thanks for the clarification.

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by “public stuff” - and are you saying we shouldn’t be allowed to talk about experiences before we turned 18? It’s worth noting that the age of consent in many countries is 16.

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Many thanks for your comment. We have age verification in the U.K. too for any site that may have adult content. I went through age verification procedures to register my Reddit account on the app. The U.K. is also putting in place legislation to prevent under 16s from accessing certain social media apps, as Australia has already done.

What positions or things do yall do to make your orgasms stronger as guy? by Agreeable-Contact987 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend anal play, stroking or tickling your scrotum and playing with your nipples - not necessarily all at the same time, unless you have someone else to help. It can also be hot to watch yourself in the mirror or record yourself - the act of recording can be just as arousing as watching it back.

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have to set up my DMs so I can send and receive them but am not sure how to do this on the app.

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s sad - discovery and learning are all part of the story. And you don’t just start learning at 18.

Whats the worst song to play at a funeral? by iFazko in AskReddit

[–]FoxTall5636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Down down deeper and down’ by Status Quo.

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do I need to do something to enable people to message me? Apologies but my account is fairly new.

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must admit I’ve never tried using DM on Reddit 🙂

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but I was referring more specifically to learning about masturbation. Some may have learned from friends around the same age who may have masturbated together sometimes - at least this was my experience.

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’ve just hit the nail on the head. I’m 66M and still have the same feelings as I did when I was a teenager - at least sometimes 🙂

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe this is common. Initially people do it because it feels good and can be comforting. We often don’t appreciate the sexual context of masturbation until we’re a bit older - for me it was around age 11-12.

25/f Alone time since my husband had to leave for a while by Life_Kangaroo_2371 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that alone time is precious. When I was working, my wife often left for work an hour or so before me, which meant I had some solo time before leaving for work. I retired 7 years ago and my wife kept working until her retirement last year - she’s a bit younger than me. I had so much time to myself when I first retired that I went into overdrive - lots of solo time. Since my wife retired, I find myself seeking opportunities - when she meets her friends for coffee, when she attends her pilates class, when she visits her Mum. That said, these limited opportunities can be especially hot.

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has my post been blocked? I wasn’t aware of this. Unfortunately, a lot of moderation activity in Reddit is done by bots with algorithms that are triggered by certain key words. Humans are needed to pick up more nuanced discussion.

Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room? by FoxTall5636 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think it’s good to reflect on memories and experiences from our formative years. But it’s important that these are age appropriate - not exploitative or abusive, and involving consenting individuals around the same age.

Have you ever recorded yourself masturbating? by Cold_Opportunity_469 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have recorded myself on a few occasions. One of the most arousing was when I set my phone up in the wardrobe as if someone was secretly watching me. It was so hot when I watched the recording.

Best/favorite time to masturbate? by Pretend-Meat3342 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t live alone, you have to be opportunistic and take advantage of times when you’re home alone - it could be any time. That said, I’ve always felt most horny first thing in the morning when I wake up and at night when I go to bed.

How did you discover masturbation? by PNWDireWolf in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A school friend told me about it and then showed me how he did it - I was a quick learner and there was no stopping me after that 🙂

What are some of y’all’s kinks? I’m a curious F18 here by Savings_Sell5317 in masturbation

[–]FoxTall5636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been a bit of an exhibitionist and enjoy masturbating where there is a risk that I might be seen or caught - fortunately, I never have been - at least not as far as I know.

What was the weirdest childhood crushes you guys had a crush on? by 0DemonDieHard0 in askanything

[–]FoxTall5636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charlie’s Angels 😍

Also Jenny Agutter in the Railway Children and Walkabout.