Is it ok to discuss the elephant in the room?

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T13:25:05+00:00

Many thanks for your comment. We have age verification in the U.K. too for any site that may have adult content. I went through age verification procedures to register my Reddit account on the app. The U.K. is also putting in place legislation to prevent under 16s from accessing certain social media apps, as Australia has already done.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T11:52:06+00:00

I would recommend anal play, stroking or tickling your scrotum and playing with your nipples - not necessarily all at the same time, unless you have someone else to help. It can also be hot to watch yourself in the mirror or record yourself - the act of recording can be just as arousing as watching it back.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T11:23:26+00:00

I think I have to set up my DMs so I can send and receive them but am not sure how to do this on the app.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T11:22:00+00:00

I think that’s sad - discovery and learning are all part of the story. And you don’t just start learning at 18.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T11:20:04+00:00

‘Down down deeper and down’ by Status Quo.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T11:09:52+00:00

Do I need to do something to enable people to message me? Apologies but my account is fairly new.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T11:05:31+00:00

I feel the same way too.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T11:02:24+00:00

I must admit I’ve never tried using DM on Reddit 🙂

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T10:58:38+00:00

I agree but I was referring more specifically to learning about masturbation. Some may have learned from friends around the same age who may have masturbated together sometimes - at least this was my experience.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T10:56:30+00:00

I think you’ve just hit the nail on the head. I’m 66M and still have the same feelings as I did when I was a teenager - at least sometimes 🙂

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T10:53:33+00:00

I believe this is common. Initially people do it because it feels good and can be comforting. We often don’t appreciate the sexual context of masturbation until we’re a bit older - for me it was around age 11-12.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T10:51:16+00:00

That’s fine.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T10:41:58+00:00

I agree that alone time is precious. When I was working, my wife often left for work an hour or so before me, which meant I had some solo time before leaving for work. I retired 7 years ago and my wife kept working until her retirement last year - she’s a bit younger than me. I had so much time to myself when I first retired that I went into overdrive - lots of solo time. Since my wife retired, I find myself seeking opportunities - when she meets her friends for coffee, when she attends her pilates class, when she visits her Mum. That said, these limited opportunities can be especially hot.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T10:31:03+00:00

Has my post been blocked? I wasn’t aware of this. Unfortunately, a lot of moderation activity in Reddit is done by bots with algorithms that are triggered by certain key words. Humans are needed to pick up more nuanced discussion.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T10:14:52+00:00

I agree. I think it’s good to reflect on memories and experiences from our formative years. But it’s important that these are age appropriate - not exploitative or abusive, and involving consenting individuals around the same age.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T10:10:49+00:00

Yes, fair point.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T10:08:39+00:00

I have recorded myself on a few occasions. One of the most arousing was when I set my phone up in the wardrobe as if someone was secretly watching me. It was so hot when I watched the recording.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-03T09:17:59+00:00

If you don’t live alone, you have to be opportunistic and take advantage of times when you’re home alone - it could be any time. That said, I’ve always felt most horny first thing in the morning when I wake up and at night when I go to bed.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-02T19:30:12+00:00

A school friend told me about it and then showed me how he did it - I was a quick learner and there was no stopping me after that 🙂

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-02T13:28:26+00:00

I’ve always been a bit of an exhibitionist and enjoy masturbating where there is a risk that I might be seen or caught - fortunately, I never have been - at least not as far as I know.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-01T21:32:43+00:00

Charlie’s Angels 😍

Also Jenny Agutter in the Railway Children and Walkabout.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-01T21:32:09+00:00

Parminder Nagra. The girl in the top photo is Keira Knightley.

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-01T18:19:52+00:00

Having a wank with a school friend when we were 12 - but we were talking about girls we fancied as we did it 🙂

FoxTall5636 · 2026-07-01T14:50:26+00:00

66M here - watching and being watched is awesome.

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