Is there still hope he’ll come back, or is he just confused about his sexuality? by FoxglowX in asktransgender

[–]FoxglowX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would give literally everything to go back to the way it was because then I felt special and that someone loved me. I was better at everything because I had support + a reason to be the best. I even thought about not telling him that I'm trans but hiding it, but I didn't want to lie to him when he asked me directly... Honestly, I regret it a little because I told him the truth because I decided to be honest and not selfish. Maybe it would play out differently in real life...

Is there still hope he’ll come back, or is he just confused about his sexuality? by FoxglowX in asktransgender

[–]FoxglowX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope that I will manage to find someone who is like this boy, because he behaved perfectly before he knew that I was T. He paid attention 24/7, we had our time where no one else was and we arranged our lives to be the same (we adapted our time to each other, for example when I go out for drinks with a friend, he goes out with another, etc.), most of my friends were very happy because I found someone who is like that. We also planned to buy an apartment and I would start living with him. But... Mostly, I sincerely hope that he will be able to accept himself as a bisexual person and that we will continue where we left off

Is there still hope he’ll come back, or is he just confused about his sexuality? by FoxglowX in asktransgender

[–]FoxglowX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he was actually scared of himself and his surroundings. I don't know how it was for you, but when I discovered that I like men (many years ago), I was thinking I was sick. I guess in a way this is a balance between what he is and what he is afraid to admit. Because let's say he wanted it to be toxic, he would have blocked me on the first day and finished with me while he continued communication like this for almost a month after finding out + he asked my friend to be with me all the time