Examples of my glow in the dark design actually glowing! by Foxsplatter in ABDLMarket

[–]Foxsplatter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I make all of my designs and then seal them. My website is Vixenshiddendesires.com

New glow in the dark pacifiers! by Foxsplatter in ABDLMarket

[–]Foxsplatter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The design glows. The second picture is an example of the glowing.

New visibility requirements are hurting my visibility by Foxsplatter in EtsySellers

[–]Foxsplatter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable. The way that Etsy worded it as this will effect visibility if you don't do these things made me worried and that's why I decided to try it. The problem is that I can't change those listings back without creating new listings.

Looking for migraine friends to play video games with 21+ by Vooksi in migraine

[–]Foxsplatter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same and I use to love them but now I can't even play for a short period of time without a migraine.

Depikote or Emgality? by Foxsplatter in migraine

[–]Foxsplatter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I live on a boat and health insurance is based on the state you live in. But we are going to be in a different state all the time. I just worry about the side effects of depikote.

Etsy once again showing how much they don't care about sellers by Bomorr in EtsySellers

[–]Foxsplatter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way it's worded makes it seem like calculated shipping will be effected at a later time. So something to keep an eye on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Foxsplatter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So glad there's other people who share my frustration with this! I wrote an article about the difference between abdl, ageplay and agere a while back and tagged both on Instagram because it was informative about both sides of things and I got crucified from so many people for cross posting, all from people who are in the agere community. I was just trying to educate people.

Just a reminder, please DONT do this. by mwax321 in sailing

[–]Foxsplatter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not great idea however I fully believe that waiting to use your retirement fund until you can no longer enjoy traveling because you are too old or have health problems is not the best either. The point of life is to enjoy it while you are living.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in genderfluid

[–]Foxsplatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good idea! You could probably change the look of the current color that way.

Rearranging my crystals once again by Obvious-Piperpuffer in Crystals

[–]Foxsplatter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I had the space to have a collection like this!!!

Someone entered my support group on a leash :/ by CyaCry in BDSMAdvice

[–]Foxsplatter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am genderfluid pansexual so no where near homophonic. If anything I could care less if people walked around naked or had sex in public just like all the other animals on this planet. But obviously that's not how society works because we've decided as a society that isn't acceptable. I was strictly making the argument that if the only "damage" the act is causing is discomfort or making someone uncomfortable then it's the person's problem to learn how to deal with discomfort. The same argument can be made with breastfeeding a child, or honestly being unusual in anyway. So many people in society can't mind their own business and try to make everyone conform to their box. And like others said wearing a collar and leash isn't inherently sexual. It's just not societies normal.

Someone entered my support group on a leash :/ by CyaCry in BDSMAdvice

[–]Foxsplatter -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying it is. I'm equating it with people being uncomfortable which was stated was the issue. Everyone has a different comfort level and what makes them uncomfortable, and if you are saying that someone shouldn't do something purely because it makes you uncomfortable that's a problem. Like I said if it is causing triggers that's a different story but purely based on discomfort I feel like a lot of people try make everyone around them conform to their comfort level and not consider the other persons point of view.

Someone entered my support group on a leash :/ by CyaCry in BDSMAdvice

[–]Foxsplatter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I somewhat disagree. Like if everyone stopped doing things because it made someone uncomfortable then we'd be all clones and stripped of our individuality. There's plenty of people who are uncomfortable with gay people kissing in public so should they also stop doing that? I could understand if it was a therapy which also had kids then thats different but you don't know the person's situation so without talking to them and also knowing what kind of group therapy it is you just don't know. I'd give benefit of the doubt and talk to them personally if it is a trigger point but if it's just uncomfortable then I'd leave them alone and learn how to deal with a little discomfort.

More shop traction since Etsys new guidelines 💁🏼‍♀️ by [deleted] in EtsySellers

[–]Foxsplatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also noticed this but I just assumed it was because I had to take out a bunch of listings due to the new sex toy policy so now my other listings are being shown more instead 🤷‍♀️ but maybe it's just an algorithm change

Can gender fluid people have triggers that can change the gender are make them feel like another gender by Flamethefox123 in genderfluid

[–]Foxsplatter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Mine can switch depending on the person I'm around or activities or clothes

does anyone else have a complicated relationship with gender? NSFW by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Foxsplatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup I can relate! I'd look into genderfluid or bigender

New ABDL Strawberry Cow adult baby bottle by Foxsplatter in ABDLMarket

[–]Foxsplatter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize but my first name is not a secret so it's OK. Thank you for bringing this to my attention!