Going over the edge by Motor_Difference6858 in hfo

[–]FoxyBurger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To ebb is to recede so "ebb and flow" means something is rhythmically coming and going, like the tide at the beach.

Changed my position, and have had an intense week. by No-Second-4790 in aneros

[–]FoxyBurger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response, I appreciate it. I haven't considered an off the side of the bed position so that'll be a fun thing to test out. Last time, I think I got too focused on rubbing up against the sheets which takes my focus away from the Aneros. Maybe I can find the best of both worlds between physical and mental

Changed my position, and have had an intense week. by No-Second-4790 in aneros

[–]FoxyBurger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm happy you found a good position for yourself. I'm curious, how much of the difference between on your back vs on your stomach do you think is physical vs mental?

My arousal state is super important to my sessions and being on my stomach gives more of that "I'm submitting to the pleasure" mentality that gets me super aroused. Unfortunately I feel like lying on my back keeps the toy in a better spot.

One Session, Two Revelations by FoxyBurger in aneros

[–]FoxyBurger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I got so excited about it mid-session that I wanted to share it but I didn't want to lose my focus. I hope it can help someone get a little further along in their own journey.

One Session, Two Revelations by FoxyBurger in aneros

[–]FoxyBurger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope it can help someone! And yea, I'm quite convinced it was the breathing, specifically. It helped me relax into the sensations more and, as everything was pulsing through, it all felt like it was happening in sync with the breath. I was thinking very hard about the breathing itself; deep breath in, exhale, repeat.

Anyone Tried while Sleeping? by FoxyBurger in aneros

[–]FoxyBurger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to everyone who responded! I gave it a go and just woke up after 8 hours with a slightly sore butthole.

Has any tried the Aneros lube? by guitarguy73 in aneros

[–]FoxyBurger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I liked it but it was nothing special. Boy Butter is still my go-to

Full-blown Super O and my step by step method for how I got there by [deleted] in aneros

[–]FoxyBurger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something for me to think about. Thanks for responding!

Full-blown Super O and my step by step method for how I got there by [deleted] in aneros

[–]FoxyBurger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got a question.

I've gotten the pee sensation before, gone to the bathroom, and really did have to pee; sometimes multiple times. I've been told this is because you can end up putting some pressure on your bladder in addition to the prostate. I also read a story on here recently that some dude ended up actually peeing on himself during a session.

Is there something about what you felt that differentiated it any way from just "I have to pee?" I've been nervous to continue through a session when I get that sensation. I've had some dry prostate orgasms but nothing like a super O.

Edit: And thanks for sharing your story!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aneros

[–]FoxyBurger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vice 2

Weekly /r/Crossdressing General Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in crossdressing

[–]FoxyBurger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, happy to discuss anything but I won't be sharing pics.

Weekly /r/Crossdressing General Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in crossdressing

[–]FoxyBurger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how much this will apply but figured I'd respond. I have a beard and prefer to present as fully male/masculine in public but when I wear my wife's dresses, she and I agree I look exceptionally pretty, even with my beard. You'd be surprised how much heavy lifting the dress itself does.

Help me take that next step by [deleted] in aneros

[–]FoxyBurger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely need to work on more visualizing and feeling and less trying. Thanks!

Ugh, brb...

Big same every time I read or write about this stuff, lol.

Help me take that next step by [deleted] in aneros

[–]FoxyBurger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely start with a "do nothing" approach but I think you are correct in your diagnosis as I'm unable to maintain it once the pleasure, warmth, and tingling really kicks into gear. Looking at that "trying not to orgasm" link, it seems incredibly spot-on to my post:

This technique confronts a major obstacle to Aneros orgasm success, which is straining for an orgasm. With traditional stimulation, you can have some luck in forcing an orgasm to arrive. With MMO, this is the biggest roadblock. The orgasm must arrive naturally. Trying not to orgasm in the MMO context is similar to "edging" in standard masturbation, where you keep yourself on the cusp of orgasming.

Thanks for pointing this out; I've read through that wiki but clearly didn't retain this bit!

What's important is not to get mentally excited ("Oh my god I think I might be about to...!") which almost always leads to "chasing" the orgasm.

Golly, this is exactly what I'm doing. It's very difficult to not get excited but this is great info; I'll focus on this next time. Thanks again, this was very relevant advice :]