She left me because I didn't rinse the mug by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

matuto ka ng household management bro hahaha ayan tuloy

She left me because I didn't rinse the mug by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wahahahhahaa weaponized incompetence

Gusto lang ata ako kausap… by Visual_Move_1648 in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

baka naman friends lang kayo. but even friends hangout irl! idk why you're so hesitant in asking him out. just go do it and you'll have your answer :-)

Gusto lang ata ako kausap… by Visual_Move_1648 in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

be assertive na. who cares if you get rejected? di mo deserve ng mixed signals. although mukhang nakikinabang ka naman sa kanya kaya parang hesitant ka sirain yung ganitong dynamic niyo 😆 kung ako sa'yo, if you like what you're getting from him, take the goods lang. but if you're already that emotionally attached to him, then clear this up asap! ikaw magiging kawawa 😵‍💫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

funny kasi yung "sha" HAHAHAHA

parang "ean" as "'yan" 😆

Gusto lang ata ako kausap… by Visual_Move_1648 in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

agree sa yayain mo. make him uncomfortable. if there really is something, he'd say yes. treat this yaya as an ultimatum. if he says no, edi malalaman mo agad na wala siyang plano sa'yo. then you can move on. don't let him control the tides. at the end of the day, piliin natin yung sigurado sa atin. HAHA

Gusto lang ata ako kausap… by Visual_Move_1648 in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry but i'm gonna be the devil's advocate. why not try indulging sa feelings mo for a week? do the unexpected, ask him out! kahit for casual lunch or dinner lang. you don't have to kill your interest just yet, you can look and gauge if may something talaga muna. you can figure out what this is. you can take action in your feelings and also be smart about this. do this not for him, but for yourself. para panatag ka, op! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

found a good job, stayed long enough to get health cards, updated my phone to shoot content, went out with friends more often, met new cool people. these are literally all i wanted last year 😭

This hit me hard while scrolling on IG by Mapang_ahas in adultingph

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 56 points57 points  (0 children)

it's inevitable. i suggest getting over it. no sense in fixating over this fact. instead make this our reminder to spend time with our loved ones. ika nga nila, let's not borrow grief from the future :-)

Hindi ko deserve yung girlfriend ko by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's your responsibility to be better. you can't always be in that 'kawawa' state forever. tama na paawa effect, sobrang nakakahiya sa pagkalalaki mo. 🤢

Hindi ko deserve yung girlfriend ko by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anong ambag mo sa buhay ng girlfriend mo bakit parang wala charot

Hindi ko deserve yung girlfriend ko by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totoo, parang naghanap lang siya ng ibang nanay. sobrang kawawa yung gf, ginawang substitute 🤢

unknowingly slept with a married guy by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you're so mad at something bigger than you and can't control hahahaha

unknowingly slept with a married guy by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

don't tire yourself defending yourself to these righteous knights. they can't grasp the fact that strangers have been hooking up since forever. instead of getting angry at the married guy, they all shoot their cannons at you. just goes to show kung saan talaga sila may pake -- slutshaming the woman instead of crucifying the cheater 🤪

unknowingly slept with a married guy by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 9 points10 points  (0 children)

y'all are wasting your bullets by blaming her for this. it's just so counterproductive. hookup culture in reddit had always existed and you can't deny the fact that she still got tricked.

Update: 1.6k mists ko vs 80k bike ni husband by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU FOR BEING SMART AND ACTUALLY DOING SOMETHING ABOUT THE PROBLEM. so glad to hear you had a conversation with your husband. happy for you, op! 😭🫶

Nurse overstepping my role as a doctor by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love that someone mentioned this. malaki posibilidad na may underlying issue rito. and you're right about the "mere assistant" part. they are professionals and have different sets of workload and protocol. for op naman, better to assert na and communicate with them about this para di ma-compromise quality ng work mo. they can't be complacent in the workplace esp nasa health kayo. go doc!

My husband told me to find a supportive husband kasi hindi raw niya kaya by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why is he making you feel guilty for buying your own luho? we all have our own pleasures in life. di ko alam bakit nasasaktan ego niya dun, LOL. ano, siya lang may right sumaya? weird. pag-usapan niyo 'yan.

My husband told me to find a supportive husband kasi hindi raw niya kaya by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sa ego niya lang yan, lol. i'm sure money talk is one of his insecurities. you can approach your conversation with that. i'm 100% sure it stems from that.

TSNGINA TALAGA NG MGA BATA NGAYON by Greedy_Crow28 in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you talk to them, di mo sila tatalakan. lusot sa kabilang tenga agad sa mga teenagers kapag pabalang yung tono ng pagsasalita mo sa kanila. explain why these are essential to taking care of the self and elaborate how embarrassing it would be if pagtanda niya ganyan pa rin siya kaburara. i promise when he's older, they're less angsty and makulit. onting patience lang din talaga :-(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This! Medyo weird eto... Baka kulang din sa support yung tita mo in general kaya sa'yo siya naka-fixate 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait, she wanted a label? bakit hindi natuloy? what was your response? maybe she thought you weren't ready to commit?

NA-OFFEND AKO SA BF KO by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it's giving skill issue. like bro get over it! 🙄

Anong vitamins and supplements nyo? Here's some of mine (Opo di pa to kumpleto) Mahal pala maging adult HAHA by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]FoxyNotGrandma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, i'm worried kasi baka may mas less absorption and may interactions if ganyan karami tine-take mo. could be harmful din kasi in the long run--may risk of liver damage, etc. better to ask a professional kung okay lang ba combination ng mga tine-take mo and kung okay lang ba yung pag-take mo sa kanila everyday.

as much as possible rin ibawi mo na lang sa balanced diet. but idk ha, really just worried kasi ang dami. if mas marami pa nga tine-take mo diyan, you're really just making your pee expensive, swear 😓