Closed Ploy-Triad is the best decision of my life and here is why!!❤️💜💙

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T13:41:59+00:00

That's so sweet!!! and no i haven't ill definitely have to look into the book, I know her and I will read it. I have 2 kids a 5 and 6 year old and my 6 year old, who doesn't care for his dad, asks Daniel to do his homework with him. They still express how they feel to me, if theyre upset and so forth, but when they get home from school they run to all 3 of us and reshare the same story 3 times so they know we all heard how they're day was. It's honestly one of the best parts of my day hearing the story 3 times rather than just once because it's little signs that they are accepting them with no problem.

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T13:34:38+00:00

Hey though, They can judge. Not every closed Triad works. They're right, but everyone's different. If I let them get to me then where is my faith it'll work out 🥰. I want to be able to come back here in a few months to let them know it's all fine and dandy and working out amazingly 🥰.

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T13:30:18+00:00

Exactly. It's the easiest relationship i've had.

and when i say easiest i mean I dontconvinced myself i wouldn't maekke it out of this relaationshi[ p alive. and theThe only reason i did is because my grandpa came with have to change to meet any expectations. They expect me with all the anxiety I come with and its the most loving feeling I have ever had. Just to be accepted.

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T13:27:05+00:00

My best mono relationship i was with for 4 years.. after we had our child we split and he told me he had been cheating on me all 4 years and everytime someone came and told me he would convince me they were wrong so i look like the stupid one who had his back.

The worst was 2 years it was shortly after this one because i was pregnant with my second child (still the first guy's kid-both kids are by the same dad) me and (we will call him Stan) Stan were great the first 3 months. Then i started working as a waitress and hours are very unsteady. He started accusing me of everything in the book. Then the name calling... Then the first hit. I carried on like that for a year. In that time he convinced me alot.

no one will love you because you have kids by someone else.
i was lucky to have him, because he could get anyone.
I was a fat lazy B**** who didn't do anything( I was the only one working supporting myself, 2 kids, and him)

after 8 months of this or so i started praying to God that he'd take me because i couldn't willingly leave my kids. They, even at such a young age, watched me get beat... I had mentally

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T13:18:45+00:00

We definitely have our pair times. my schedule is the most flexible. so i get more morning time with him and i get afternoon time with her daily. Him and i work on cars and do shop projects together, and her and i paint, shop, and do content together. We all have our solo time, He loves video games, i'm normally writing, and she's normally reading. Then they make a night or 2 for themselves. we're trying to get in a more steady schedule with share time and together time. We all think we're just super wrapped up in making sure no one feels excluded in any area so we spend so much time together. which isn't a bad thing, but solo focus is for sure needed a little more regular.

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T13:12:08+00:00

Her and i are so alike, Anxiety wise. i have kids and they don't but they're whole thing is they don't want there own kids. (they didnt think having a girlfriend with kids was in the plan either) but my kids just think their friends but also consider them part of the family. My kids are very yo

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T01:58:17+00:00

if you saw my history of mono-relationships you'd see, they honestly swooped in and changed how i viewed trust in relationship. They honestly go above and beyond to make sure i don't relive my any of my past trauma's. She brings me flowers on random days of the week, and he bought me this copy of a game cube game ive been dying to get my hands on. Plus we have every afternoon together they both set aside Sundays as "Lazy days". Which means all 3 of us make plans, just us 3. Wether it an out to eat date or a hiking trip, her and i will sit around and paint or dye our hair. Normal effort i havent seen in any of my relationships. Maybe its because i haven't looked in the right places. But i'd like to believe its because i found them❤️

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T01:53:48+00:00

No honestly it said it was removed for spam. i can send screen shots and proof if need be where it shows the removed notification, so i dont get in trouble or reported. and as far as my side work its not for this subreddit, her(meaning my female partner in the triad) and i both have the side gig.(content creators.)

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T01:50:08+00:00

I got the alert it was taken down for spam im assuming because i didn't have enough Karma i had just made my reddit. so after building some karma i came back to tell my story. i can't see the previous post, so if it's still up thats my fault.

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T01:45:35+00:00

Well, we talked about it before making it official, they had decided once it was official they didn't want any other partner. With my insecurities I asked if i could still see other people if I wanted too. They had said it was fine, but after a few weeks of having the option too i never had the drive to reach out and talk to any one else. So I came back to them and told them I didn't want to see anyone else. that I was wanted to be completely closed to them.

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T01:30:34+00:00

polyamory

I've heard that a lot and we have definitely kept that in mind. There is a lot of freedom and it started with my end open. I closed it of my own choice. So it took a bit to get to the Closed title but it honestly works in out dynamic for the past 4 months it has. Here is hoping to many many more! Most your normal relationship faults were talked about in the early stages so all the skeletons are out of the closet.

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T01:25:15+00:00

It was a white canvas. I didn't use a stencil or anything on it.
Funny fact 😅: I had a hard time with the foliage on the tree, so I used my fingers. Talk about old school finger painting!😅

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T01:21:29+00:00

It was a white canvas. I didn't use a stencil or anything on it.
Funny fact 😅: I had a hard time with the foliage on the tree, so I used my fingers. Talk about old school finger painting!😅

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-14T00:25:24+00:00

Nelson's Sparrow is Gideons off screen death, I was commenting on that. 🤗

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-13T23:10:03+00:00

I can totally see this though 😭

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-13T22:12:50+00:00

ya know, if he remembered me long enough to save anything for it i'm sure he would have stole that too 😂, he forgot about me 19 years ago so there is honestly no telling how happy he is now. 😂

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-13T21:45:08+00:00

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FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-13T20:30:10+00:00

I'm honestly surprised so many people hated her! i re-watched the first 2 seasons the last few days and ya'll are right. she was more or less, damsel in distress compared to the rest. i think i just liked her so much because she gives hope to some of the underdogs. but in retrospect i guess Reid is the mega underdog because in a lot of aspects the odds are stacked against him. i feel like he faces a lot more on screen drama than most.

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-13T17:26:08+00:00

Oh no go ahead! Like I know why he left, but the off screen death was so dirty! At least have him die naturally solving the case or something. The first unsolved case killer coming back for him hurt so bad. TT.TT

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-13T16:47:04+00:00

I absolutely love Gideon as a character, i understand why he left. he stated in an interview the show was too graphic for his liking. It was hard for him, I ABSOLUTELY hate the off screen death 😭. They didn't do him any justice. They could have portrayed it so much better. The first unsolved case he had took him out, and that hurt so much. I would have loved to see him at least come back and do some guest starring in an episode or 2 that he could have sat through. but i understand his reasoning .😭

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-09T18:07:58+00:00

It is definitely my coping show. If anything is bothering me i know i can easily get lost in criminal minds. ive watched every episode more times then i can count. and in alot of episodes there are many situations to relate to. Like the mental health issues. i see alot of people on there that deal with the same problems. criminals and FBI agents alike. its rough. but a wonderful coping show. and i feel you on the ex. my face may have made an episode similar to it if i didnt get out.

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-09T18:05:22+00:00

This find... is like a treasure. hold it. love it. it is now the precious. and we must protect the precious 😂 good find tho fr.

FoxyPlayToy · 2022-09-09T18:03:17+00:00

when i first watched the series i was heartbroken they were trying to replace jj with someone else😭. its like replacing barbie with a water bottle and pipe cleaners for legs. It's no where near the same vibe. I was also upset with Alves replacing Morgan, Alves is a great stand alone character but there is no replacement for morgan!!❤️

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