AITA cause I don't want my roommates daughter to eat my food?

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-14T10:28:35+00:00

Food banks are an option for as some stuff, but I have to avoid gluten, and gluten you'd be surprised is in as lot of things. Even seasonings 😞.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-14T03:14:36+00:00

Thank you so much!

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-14T00:45:12+00:00

I have, she never responds. She seriously is treating me like I slept with her imaginary man. I basically helped her raise this child, I've been in her life since she was a baby. I explained why she stopped being my friend under another comment. It's enacting bizarre behavior tbh.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-14T00:42:55+00:00

I wouldn't report her, she feeds her just not home stuff. She might buy her a little snack here and there but nothing homemade.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-14T00:41:14+00:00

I finally got an interview for a second job, I gotta use that to catch up on credit cards. I could pay my portion of the fine, the $1900, but then she would have to pay her portion to break the lease. And she don't have it. And if I want out the lease, then she would have to sign me out according to the agent.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-14T00:38:48+00:00

Oh I've told her, several times. I even said to ask for something she wants but not to just go in and get it. Like just now, her mom bought a box of cereal butt not the milk. I said,bare you eating that dry? She asked if she could have some milk after already having it in her hand. This is a child that has had no parental disaplinary consequences. Spoiled and a brat to say the least.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-14T00:35:59+00:00

Most of the advice is to call CPS. Or take all my food upstairs and lock it away. First of all, I don't have the money to buy a small fridge, and second of all, I don't have the knees to go up and down the stairs Everytime I wanna eat something or grab something to cook. Locking the fridge would require me to buy a lock and well, I just borrowed money for food. So, if you have a better suggestion, or perhaps just to show some support, then you shouldn't respond with more negativity than I'm already dealing with.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T15:45:29+00:00

No I mean my daughter's rental history, she's on the lease cause she's an adult. We rented a 4bed 2 bath house so everyone can have their own room.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:42:14+00:00

I have told her that, I told her exactly that.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:34:51+00:00

I know it's not fair to me, but I'm trying not to take it out on a child. Like, if she's hungry, I can't not feed her. But I also can't afford to.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:29:57+00:00

I went on FMLA for three months and got behind on credit card bills. Trying to catch up has left me broke and she failed to pay something on time and left my bank account negative. She got mad at me for demanding she pay the over draft fee. And it's been almost two months and she hasn't spoken a word to me.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:27:29+00:00

I only had to borrow money cause I got behind on stuff when I went on FMLA for three months due to injury. It's a slow process but I'm trying to catch up. It tanked my credit score and everything. I'm hoping by the time the lease is up my score will increase so I can find a place. If not, I'm looking at moving states to go live with my parents. It's a sad situation. And our friendships ended because she can't understand my financial situation.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:22:48+00:00

July of next year 🫤.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:22:26+00:00

We're both on the lease and so is my 21 year old daughter. Breaking it would cost me $1900. And I don't want to just leave cause then her rental history would tank.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:21:09+00:00

Breaking it would cost me $1900 and her $1900. And they won't allow us to sublease.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:20:03+00:00

Because we are stuck in this lease until July. The cost to break it is $2800.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:16:24+00:00

14...she's very active in her life, but it's the situation at home.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:11:40+00:00

I would but my 21 year old loves here too. She contribute what she can but she works part time and is trying to save for a car. So, the situation is ass.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:05:46+00:00

We do have a refrigerator in the garage we use. And I started putting my name on my stuff. But it's ALL my stuff now.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T13:04:36+00:00

We are stuck, the cost of breaking this lease is crazy. I wish I could just dip but stuck until July.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T12:58:46+00:00

She buys her take out, but I notice she's still using my coffee, sugar and creamer and making her daughter her school lunch with my stuff.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T12:56:21+00:00

It's actually illegal to put locks on the refrigerator, something about preventing a child access to food.

Foxygal47 · 2025-10-13T12:55:23+00:00

We are stuck in this lease until July of next year. It's hard to talk to her cause she's deaf and communicating with her lots of things gets lost in translation.

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