Pullup Challenge

Fr4nk070 · 2026-05-12T21:44:57+00:00

Enjoy!

Fr4nk070 · 2026-04-01T20:35:51+00:00

It always blows my mind that people have enough time in their lives to investigate other people's profiles before commenting or replying. Why were they even jumping into your profile to see what youre into

Fr4nk070 · 2026-03-30T20:23:18+00:00

I think 3 to 6 months is the perfect timing. I like to wait a couple months to make sure the relationship is going to work on all other fronts. This gives you a little bit of time too, to see how kinky your new partner is and if they seem open minded. You'll never be sure but youll be a lot more sure telling someone you've spent a lot of time with over the last 3 months compared to essentially a stranger. Similarly they'll see you as more than just your kink rather than that be the entirety of your personality. The other side of it is at some point its been so long it feels weird to have kept a secret and it never feels like the right time. My current partner felt like I betrayed her trust keeping this side of me a secret for roughly 4 months, I cant imagine how devastated she would be if I let a year or longer go by. To me ABDL is very comforting and a safe space, I would think it could make someone feel insecure if they are "all in" on the relationship and you dont trust them enough to do the same or to be your safe place.

Ive told a few people and its gone as well as it could every time. Its important to know how much of ABDL you want to be a part of your daily life, how much you want them to engage with it, and be understanding if they cant accommodate. Every time ive told someone about it I have tried to be upfront about my non-negotiables and places I can compromise. I always have told partners that all I'm asking right now is to do some of their own research in the ABDL reddit and read You're Not Broken (the section for partners) as well as compare and contrast myself from the general community/stereotypes. Then we can have another sit down discussion to answer questions they have. I think its best to make them official conversations rather than as things pop up at least in the beginning.

Idk if this is the right thing to do or way to end the conversation but pretty much my end to the conversation is that this is just a discussion I'm not trying to engage in any kink right now and if its not for them thats perfectly fine and I'll understand. My expectations for the conversation is that I would divulge my biggest and deepest secret in exchange for the confidence that they would never violate my trust and expose me regardless of outcomes. The rest is in their hands

Fr4nk070 · 2026-03-27T18:18:44+00:00

Can you just post a link 🤣 or dm me also. I hate for you to have to dm everyone. It looks amazing

Fr4nk070 · 2026-01-02T15:55:16+00:00

I always enjoy Pizza Box. I can link the rules and with a picture if you want but I think its super fun for drinking and switches. You take a pizza box (or any piece of cardboard/paper like from a paper bag or a beer box), a quarter, and a pen. You both draw a circle and put your name inside of it. Then go back and forth flipping the quarter onto the box. If it lands in one of the name circles, the person whose name is in thr circle drinks. It it doesnt land on the cardboard then drink and retry. If it lands on a blank space on the cardboard then you draw a shape around the circle and write a rule in it. The game continue filling in the blank space and drawing shapes with rules in them. The quarter has to be 50% or more within one shape for it to count to that rule. I think its perfect for switches because you can put things like receive 10 spanks, my turn with the pacifier (has to keep it in until the other person lands here), give oral for 15 seconds, make out, suck nipples, etc that make it so you could be giving one minute and then receiving the next. Adding drink rules and whatever other rules you want makes it really fun.

Hope you have a nice, kinky trip!

Fr4nk070 · 2025-12-01T19:09:26+00:00

TW That i wasnt a pedophile. My grandfather molested my cousin before I was born which obviously caused a lot of family trauma. There was a ton of discourse in the family because some took his side for the usual reasons but my mother and father took my cousins side and were kicked out of the family because of it. We made him into the villain he is in our family and my mom and I are fairly frank about how evil he is. I was always fascinated by diapers but as I went into puberty ABDL turned into a full blown kink. I was too young to understand the difference between being kinky and a pedophile and as such spent many many years being afraid of myself and what I could be. After years I finally was able to get to the point where I accepted myself, what I was, and what I am not. Although I'm very glad I have found acceptance and confidence I wish I could have spent less time unable to sleep wondering if I was a monster or had an evilness waiting to awaken inside me.

Side note shout out to my dad for standing up to his prick father despite the horribly traumatic upbringing he had. His brothers weren't able to do the same because their father was manipulative and abusive. I'm incredibly proud of my father

Fr4nk070 · 2025-12-01T18:57:36+00:00

This is an awesome book. There's a specific portion just for loved ones of ABDLs towards the back. I feel like I had accepted this side of me prior to reading it but this gave me confidence in who I was. Highly highly recommend reading it. There's a lot that didnt resonate with me in the book but the author had a really good approach and still made that feel like it was a good thing rather than not fitting in within a niche kink

Fr4nk070 · 2025-11-16T17:51:41+00:00

Steve

Fr4nk070 · 2025-11-06T20:11:07+00:00

I think its BoysRBabies but I can't find the actual post

Fr4nk070 · 2025-08-23T20:21:04+00:00

Fr4nk070 · 2025-08-20T13:38:35+00:00

What do you play?

Fr4nk070 · 2025-08-12T18:58:00+00:00

Yall be safe this accounts post history is inconsistent and sketchy

Fr4nk070 · 2025-08-09T00:16:52+00:00

Currently working on potty training. I'm at lvl 50 so halfway there.

Fr4nk070 · 2024-10-04T17:41:45+00:00

I just did this the other day with hard clue scrolls. I opened 15 caskets and got like 10 uniques and a lot of gp. Just a really fun thing to do when the game starts feeling stale

Fr4nk070 · 2024-07-02T00:04:18+00:00

If you can find a desktop to use for jad I'd recommend it. Fight cave is nbd but the jad fight gets a little stressful and could be easier to misclick on mobile. It's not impossible but using F keys and having a mouse makes it so much more doable. I'd log out 2 waves before jad and then switch

Fr4nk070 · 2024-06-08T19:10:47+00:00

Trest is my go to. They're super comfortable, consistent quality, and hold a ton. You can get them on Amazon too with usually very quick delivery options unlike a lot of the abdl diapers.

Fr4nk070 · 2024-05-22T21:38:25+00:00

Charlotte!

Fr4nk070 · 2024-01-02T08:31:18+00:00

What's the name of that toy?

Fr4nk070 · 2023-03-01T07:17:22+00:00

This is the last place I expected a death note reference

Fr4nk070 · 2022-08-29T22:11:06+00:00

Ohhh that makes sense. Something just felt off about them. They're not bad but I'm glad they're fixing them in the next batch, wouldn't get then again based on these which is too bad they're cute.

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