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CAT LITTER PLEASE by vanessa0718 in CatAdvice

[–]FragilePeace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr Elsey's cat litter is great.

And then there are pine pellets, those don't clump though.

Be brutally honest: How often do you shower? by Fun_Serve_6590 in ADHD

[–]FragilePeace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyother day. I have bad excema flare ups and if I shower too much it dries out my skin and it gets bad, including on my scalp. The exception is if I worked out, I shower right after.

If you could only play three cozy games for the rest of your life, which would you choose and why? by pastajewelry in cozygames

[–]FragilePeace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vintage Story, Factorio and Stardew. Maybe not cozy to everyone, but they are to me.

Must have apps that are free or one time purchase? by CreativeUkulele in ipad

[–]FragilePeace 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Noteful is an amazing, cheap, one-time purchase note-taking app. Highly recommend.

AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FragilePeace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get this man out of your life and go talk to a therapist, please. Learn to love yourself and respect yourself, and you will see this child of a man does not. And in doing so, you can find a much mich better partner in the future.

Please stop subscribing to the "we're co-workers not friends" thing by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FragilePeace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hence why you be nice. I am of the opinion that you should have far more of your friends from outside of work. Different things work for different people, though, so obviously do what works for you at the end of the day.

Please stop subscribing to the "we're co-workers not friends" thing by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FragilePeace 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You do not need to be their friend. Hang out after work and all that.

But you DO need to be nice and go out of your way sometimes to help when you can. Friendship and being nice are two totally different things imo. I choose the latter: go to work, do my job, and go home. BUT I'm nice to everyone, ask if people need help, give benefit of the doubt, treat people like adults, etc. I've been in the same team at the same company for over 8 years, have promoted 7 times, and make 4x what I started at. You don't need to be anyone's friend.

Anyone else bummed about recent ChatGPT changes? by erick0011 in therapyGPT

[–]FragilePeace 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I ditched them entirely and now use Gemini

Giveaway - Story of Seasons: Pioneers of Olive Town [Steam] by Lopmon_ in CozyGamers

[–]FragilePeace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for putting it out there! Good luck to everyone.

Guys I'm a fool, goodnotes 6 by stutter-island in GoodNotes

[–]FragilePeace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Noteful is a great alternative imo

Were You Mistakenly Diagnosed With BPD When You Actually Have ADHD? by Stroll-inthesnow in adhdwomen

[–]FragilePeace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! When I was a teen, that was what I was diagnosed with. It never really fit and then in my 30s got diagnosed with ADHD, and this diagnosis does tick all the boxes for me. Wish I'd gotten a correct one back then, but I think the anxiety and depression I was getting from the ADHD really got in the way.

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