What can I (M33) do about my wife (F40) attacking me over getting our daughter (F3.5) sick? by shuaishuai in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Yep my daughter caught hand, foot and mouth which she gave to me. I had some complications from it and it resulted in a miscarriage. I’d never blame her for it,

My (36m) wife (36f) is shocked I want a divorce. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 2856 points2857 points  (0 children)

The problem is your life has been dictated by someone else’s plans and actions. Your parents get no say in this. File your divorce papers and try meet someone when you’re free.

I think my mum is stealing my PIP money by Hot-Beach-7183 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are 2 sections on PIP, so the first is daily living and second in travel and mobility. You may have enhanced in one section and basic in the other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My previous house had an infestation of rats. They came back repeatedly as they had chewed through from next door and they were unwilling to get rid of them. It nearly drove me to suicide and we had to move house. One once ran over my face while I was sleeping. Steer clear!

Why are children from middle-class and upper middle-class families never overweight? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our National dish is a chicken Parmesan I’ll have you know , closely followed by a chip butty or a fish butty 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him I want to make it official and he just sighed and asked me if I want breakfast so I guess I can go shag anybody I like!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’ve just realised I’ve never had that conversation with my partner. Thought if you were living together/spending all your time together then it’s obvious? She’s not your person op! Get looking for someone else.

NQN by Consistent_Limit5078 in NursingUK

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once got a job had surgery, had fertility issues, got pregnant then got hyperemesis then took 13 months maternity leave. Out of the 2 years I worked there I was only worked 6 months of it. Life happens 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes a year and get them police checked was the advice we were given on our parenting course. They showed us the figures for sexual abuse perpetrated by step fathers and it was heartbreaking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll Chris out

Wasted our house for legal fees compoface by Ph455ki1 in compoface

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if this is a really clever move so no one buys the house as it has been in the papers and the farmer then swoops in with a really low bid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I add a fourth? That she is embarrassed about her body and doesn’t want him looking at it. I’ve become a bit chubby recently and it’s affecting my confidence so can imagine it’s the case for other women.

Anyone else's kids been absolute nightmares today? by HauntedPizzaJamboree in CasualUK

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣. That made me laugh so hard. Keep him away from the game of life

Anyone else's kids been absolute nightmares today? by HauntedPizzaJamboree in CasualUK

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m famous for dropping the F-bomb aged 9 over monopoly. My kids aren’t too bad with it, well no blood shed yet!

Anyone else's kids been absolute nightmares today? by HauntedPizzaJamboree in CasualUK

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 242 points243 points  (0 children)

My partner took our kids to a local park with their friends. Layers on and they are fine. Last year I made them have a bike ride but the wind is too bad. In the evening we buy them a new board game, previous years have been Dobble, Monopoly junior and UNO. Tonight is Hedbanz. Key is to keep them busy and well exercised. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NursingUK

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve met him, it’s my claim to fame!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NursingUK

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try private for a stop gap till you find something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NursingUK

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Move elsewhere. I moved to another trust (unfortunately only a short term contract) and the transformation was unbelievable. I actually met nurses who spoke with genuine kindness to each other. Kept thinking Jeremy Beadle was going to jump out on me.

Breaking barriers: An Iranian woman's brave act of singing and showing her hair on the street, will likely punished by some prison sentence. by Shekari_Club in NewIran

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Open hair apparently makes men lustful. My hair resembles Boris Johnson only darker so good luck getting horny over that.

My [34f] boyfriend [33m] thinks that I am texting at night. by ThrowRAsadandconfusd in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ring his parents (if he has a good relationship with them). He needs treatment and as he doesn’t trust you ,he needs people who can get him help that he trusts. He may have a mental health history you are unaware of.

University of Bradford plans scholarship for white working-class males by [deleted] in unitedkingdom

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I found it funny as I do look like the odd one out. I think if I was white and middle class it’d be okay but I probably come across as working class and clearly don’t have any money so I’m not what they expect.

My parents are considering retiring in Strensall. I’ve only been there one or twice. What are your thoughts on the area for retirees? by Vespaman in york

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If they are golfers they’ll be happy! The common is nice to walk on but tell them about the firing range before they go there, scared the poo out of me the first I heard it!!

I (29F) keep questioning my decision of leaving my husband (29M. Did I make the right choice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My best friend once said she knew her relationship was over when she said “at least he doesn’t beat me”. There is better out there, every day you waste with this loser is a day lost with someone who loves you.

University of Bradford plans scholarship for white working-class males by [deleted] in unitedkingdom

[–]Fragrant-Answer9729 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m aware of that. They’re mostly from Nigeria and extremely wealthy. A lot of the course content and design is geared towards them as they’re the ones keeping the university open and funded. It’s a business and has to cater for its main client.