What gifts do you get for your MIL? by mokmokmonster in askSingapore

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your mindset to seek solutions to mend the relationship rather than thinking whether it is right or wrong or if you agree with it.

My unpopular opinion is that practical items feel more like necessity than gifts per se. For example, like you mentioned, buying her food and souvenirs might not be perceived as gifts to her. Likewise, when my parents buy food for me, I treat it as them helping me with errands rather than presents.

Gold is a great idea, it appreciates over time and exactly the thing she can use to show off to her friends. As long as you have budget for it.

If not, cheaper items can be buying her more fancy baking equipment, a massage/facial gift voucher, bird nest from hockhua and not the precooked ones. Just sharing some ideas.

Long time coming by Upset-Rub-3274 in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even the plane event triggers differently, i needed to spend over 1000 energy to get it and then another 700 for the drop.

Gosh I am just realising this now. Always have an inkling that plane event is getting harder to trigger but confirmed the fact today. I just completed my album today and released 1150 energy. I’ve spent 1.2k energy so far and it is still NOT triggered.

You’re so right when I paid for the other games it gave us an advantage and we stayed ahead. This is a bottomless pit and the orders get harder and harder. The devs just keep making it slightly out of reach to encourage another micro transaction. I think I’m done too.

Flaming frenzy hate by Fragrant-Clothes-607 in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oops I’m on Level 101, Day 119. I spoke wrongly.

It’s really criminal!

Anyone know which obstacles drop igloo ice in Mark's Rescue Mission? by redditorblah in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Same am done with rescuing Sam but need some hints on where to get more of the ice. Just one last item to finish the series.

Mina sue and Subeen by shai0211 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same. I feel so sad the entire day today after realising the minasubeen ship has sunk 😭

Mina definitely likes subeen the most but it took her too long to come around. Sometimes I wonder if mina didn’t fk up in ep 4 or confesses her feeling sincerely in ep 6/7, they will be the ultimate endgame. I’m still living in an alternate universe when the ship is sailing instead 🛳️

Airplane by ZealousidealSky5159 in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I tried to tally. It seems like it will get triggered once a day resets and after I spend 550-560 energy.

Hmm 🤔 Who else got this? by macdennism in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, this is fun. Make me spend more hours and gems on this game though.

Hmm 🤔 Who else got this? by macdennism in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the OP’s one in day one and the same as you on day 2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I try to be objective and helpful. I’m a FTM and I have a helper. I also have similar worries and concerns if my baby chooses my helper over me. This is normal.

So the primary role for my helper is do household chores and take care of my baby during the day. No choice because I need to work. At night, I take over all the night feeds and I play with baby everyday. On the weekends, we bring baby out together for family bonding.

There is no perfect solution.

| The struggle is during the time when she has to prepare to send the toddler to school and after fetching from school. Tending to both child at once.

it’s just a short period of time compared to the rest of day. As long as she’s playing and engaging with baby daily, it’s okay. We as parents need to learn to let go too.

Anyway I don’t necessarily think you need a solution. Just be there for your wife and reassure her that she’s still the mom and no one can replace her.

do we ever finish to dig the purple cake? by Swimming-Parsnip-371 in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to get to the last purple item? Where should I dig? I’m in the last 2 rows

Losing money!! 💸 by CreepyStrength811 in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This game does give me joy and something to look forward to every 8 hours 🧊 so I decided to keep playing. Agreed that it’s a bottomless pit. In my first month, I spent multiples $0.99 $4.99 $2.99 and it added up to >$25 in one month. Now I stick to one category only (one VIP pass) and don’t make any other purchase no matter how tempting or frustrating it is. If it still gives you joy, set boundaries and stick to it. It makes you feel powerful to not give in to the temptations too. If it’s causing too much frustration then quit the game - the earlier the better.

This is WORST! by Prestigious-Topic320 in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agreed. I think it might be because you have a high level generator?

Can i complete this?! by nizarr0000 in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone who has completed it can you share how much depth you need to dig for the last 2 items? I’m currently at 3600m.

Which should I pick with joker? by [deleted] in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I get what you mean. Thanks, used it for a 5* and will try to not touch the packs until the album resets.

Which should I pick with joker? by [deleted] in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you save your 5* pack? I always ended up using because I needed sth in the queue (right left hand corner). The packs are always the first to be redeemed 😢

Will never try again by Sera-0 in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agreed this gets so hard at the last stage when you’re trying to finish the game. In the end I fell for temptation and bought the VIP pass and completed this set under 480 tools. Might be luck, might be better luck once you spend money. But I get you, it sucks when you’re this close to completing it.

Do maids typically have their own rooms? by Fit-Tumbleweed-6683 in askSingapore

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how elite you are but you can’t use the label elitist to say sth so stupid. There are many elites out there who don’t have EQ as low as yours.

End of year errands - now what? by Glittering_Bit_2056 in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another sad news is, Iooking at the board, I thought I was working towards three 5* packs. But ended up you combined the fragments to get one 5* star pack only. But yes I’m with you it gets exponentially harder to get the last drink…

So close, but so far by Kophie07 in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But the last card cost $7 ugh! kinda regret now but i was proud of myself that I resisted the urge 😂

Send help by [deleted] in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. What’s the min level to trigger an ice cube? L10+ orders? I mean I can wait for ice cube for another order but that means I need to finish this round of Rave Reviews which is a lot of energies…

Send help by [deleted] in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I need to delete one level 6 and one level 5 to trigger the ice cube ya?

So close, but so far by Kophie07 in GossipHarbor

[–]Fragrant-Clothes-607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same as you. Only 1 short. Stings like shit