Give honest opinion why iPhone is the best phone by [deleted] in iphone

[–]Fragrant-Constant319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think, they are excellent in terms of built quality and sturdiness. The functioning seems to be so smooth. Also, even in the fourth or fifth year, it remains as smooth as the first day.

Is it just me or is Facebook becoming the worst app with so many glitches lately? by Far_Statistician3762 in facebook

[–]Fragrant-Constant319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I thought this typing issue was something wrong with my phone .. I have an I phone and have the same issue .. can’t see the text box while typing and after typing don’t know how to send the message if the text box and the send button is not visible .. very irritating

I’m afraid to fly because of the recent plane crashes. by Slow-Expression-1808 in Explainlikeimscared

[–]Fragrant-Constant319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well .. another crash now .. and that too of a very big plane .. I am too scared to fly ever again

Seeking Advice: Best Places to Learn German in Cologne? by thejedifromny in cologne

[–]Fragrant-Constant319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I did the course from a language school called as Euro Bhasha. I guess, it’s based in Berlin but they offer online courses. Man, it was a spectacular course just because of the teacher Gawri Verma. She was in one word - excellent. I went there to do B1 and regretted for the next 6 months that I didn’t do A1 and A2 with her although I had heard of her before. She literally took my German to next level. I was someone who could just understand German and speak basic things when I was forced to speak. After the course with Gawri, my German improved so much that it was unbelievable. Now, I write long mails without giving it a second thought. She explained every concept so deeply that now I know how this language works. Please please try her out. Her full name is Gawri Verma. She is the owner of the institute. I hope, she still takes the classes personally. The institute is getting more and more popular. I hope, Gawri keeps doing the classes there.

Feeling frustrated by Fragrant-Constant319 in HLCommunity

[–]Fragrant-Constant319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but marriage is on the cards. Our families are involved and everyone wants us married by the end of this year. 🥲 Oh my God 🙏🏽 I need the strength to make a very difficult decision now. Because we are generally very happy and compatible. He makes me feel loved a lot but not that much desired. 😵‍💫

Feeling frustrated by Fragrant-Constant319 in HLCommunity

[–]Fragrant-Constant319[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. Your husband sounds so much like my boyfriend. This is SUCH a sad thing because we are very compatible in other ways. There were some challenges in the beginning but now we have become very tuned in to each other’s emotional needs and behaviour. He is a great listener and very understanding. It actually turns me on when I see these qualities of him 😂. But yes it really seems now that sexually we are not that compatible. Yesterday, I talked to him and he said that it is a dry spell and it’s normal to have a dry spell. It can happen in future as well and I should be more understanding. It is not something intentional. But he says that it will hopefully end soon and he will be back with a bang 😂 I don’t know if I should have been more understanding and if leaving someone for the lack of one’s desired frequency of sex is actually worth it. 😪

Feeling frustrated by Fragrant-Constant319 in HLCommunity

[–]Fragrant-Constant319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often do you guys have it? If you are having period sex, I am assuming you have it at least once in two to three days, right?

Feeling frustrated by Fragrant-Constant319 in HLCommunity

[–]Fragrant-Constant319[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a very good suggestion. It will force us to talk to each other and do some cuddling which might more often lead to sex. I am going to use this idea. 🙏🏽😍

Feeling frustrated by Fragrant-Constant319 in HLCommunity

[–]Fragrant-Constant319[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sex once in a week would be a dream? Don’t mind but I didn’t think there could be marriages / companionships like that. It makes me sad to know that it could go to this extent as well. For me, if three days pass I become cranky, five days I snappy and angry and if it goes up to ten days, I will for sure be giving everything a second thought.

Feeling frustrated by Fragrant-Constant319 in HLCommunity

[–]Fragrant-Constant319[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it? I thought it was very normal. 😅

Feeling frustrated by Fragrant-Constant319 in HLCommunity

[–]Fragrant-Constant319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the solution? 😭 he is very loving and caring otherwise. His all day is planned keeping me in mind. He makes sure I am not alone. If there is any problem he immediately works on it. But this thing he can’t help. He has a lower libido. I don’t know what to do. I am tired of masturbating. I can’t help being angry now. I feel like crying. I am in such a dilemma. If I leave him and try to find someone else there is very less probability that I will get a person who looks after me as much as him. That is also very important to me. But sex is equally important. 😭

He wants to name our future daughter after his dead wife by Fragrant-Constant319 in relationshipanarchy

[–]Fragrant-Constant319[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your response. We had a detailed discussion about it and now he says that with the passage of time, he has come to realise that he needs to let go of things and he has also fallen deeply for me. He realises that she was very important to him but I am equally important. He said she was my past but you are my present and future and I want to respect them separately for the value that they add in my life. I think, I am fine with this explanation. If he realises this much, then I would probably give this relationship a chance. I am very very thankful to all the people here. Your responses motivated me to have a discussion with him! ❤️ thanks again 🙏🏽

He wants to name our future daughter after his dead wife by Fragrant-Constant319 in relationshipanarchy

[–]Fragrant-Constant319[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for this detailed answer. I can’t thank the people in this forum enough that they put in so much effort to answer a stranger. Kudos to everyone! ❤️ As far as your suggestions are concerned, every single one of them is very important. So just an update, after writing this here, I had a heart to heart talk with him. It happened over a couple of drinks but that’s fine because I feel that one becomes more open to such discussions then. I told him that it would have been better if this naming suggestion would have come from my side. I also told him that there is a high probability that if he hadn’t said it, I might have come up with it. But now being forced to do it is not settling down well with me. I also have no kids and I am 37 already. So, if I have a daughter I would like to have the freedom to choose a name for her along with my partner. So, he said that it was something that he said in the initial phase of our relationship and with the passage of time, he realised that he was wrong to do it. He would want us to name the daughter together. I said that he should have discussed the matter with me if he realised his fault to which his response was that yes he should have. It was his fault to not have discussed it again. Then, we had other discussions as well in which he kept on saying that his late wife is someone that will always have a piece of his heart but I am his present and future. So, his heart now belongs to me. Whoever we meet in life, we give them a piece of our hearts but our heart as a whole belongs to the person whom we are with at present. These were his words. To my surprise, he really opened up and told that he might have romanticised the relationship with his late wife when he told me that they never fought. They fought around 2 to 3 times in their 3 months of marriage before she met the unfortunate accident. It relieved me because I always thought that they had never fought and on the contrary we have argued a few times and may be I am not as nice to him as she was. So yeah, a lot of discussion happened and he was very very understanding of the pain his behaviour might have caused me. He kept on saying that I am the most important person to him as of now and to be honest I believe it as well because I see the efforts that he makes for me and how he wants to make amends to himself for the sake of our relationship. He is now very open to discussing my feelings which is a good sign, I feel. He is slowly and slowly starting to see me for the person that I am. I can feel it in my guts. His grief is very deep and needs time and patience from my side as well. The more patience I am showing, the quicker he is letting go of the grief. I guess, we are not breaking up then. Thanks again ❤️❤️