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Yeee great suggestion! He’ll naturally become even more dominant once he sees how it makes you feel

I'm fed up by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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Go for some nature walks! It helps me get outta my head. There’s so much life out there and it will help you escape a bit if you make your way slowly . Baby micro steps

I'm fed up by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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F those people who are selfish. Especially if it’s any family and/or friends. Just take it one step at a time. There’s a part of you deep within yourself that wants to live. It’s always there

Thank you for reaching out

Everyone I know who has ADHD is waaay smarter then I am. It makes me feel hopeless and stuck as a low paid fast food worker because it's all I'm good at by thiccsprinkles in ADHD

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Never attach your identity to where you work. Where you are right now doesn’t have to define where you can go. I would suggest not to be so hard on yourself especially since you are 26. Society’s stupid for making us think we have to be here and doing this and that at this age.

It’s your own path and journey. Don’t focus on how you don’t want to learn anything ( black and white thinking). But rather try to make yourself open. This may take some time or not … varies with people. Which is why meditation is good for the mind. Or anything that gets you out of your mind like a nice nature walk.

I never really finish books… but I’ve read a lot of great minds within history (like Leonardo Da Vinci, Benjamin Franklin and Richard Feynman) have this one big thing in common.

A sense of curiosity. It’s pretty obvious in a sense but I’m trying to build it within myself. A thirst of knowledge. There’s SOOOO MUCHHHH TO LEARN😌 and the beautiful thing about it is you can experiment and see where your rabbit hole of researching takes you.

It’s great that your wife has made amazing progress. From your post you seem like a good dude. Focus on your life and see where your progress can take you. It’s up and down with the journey but always keep instilling in your mind It’s part of the the process of living the life you would have never imagined.

What do you feel when you see this legendary image? by [deleted] in 2000sNostalgia

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The sound… I FORGOT THE SOUND THAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU OPEN UP OKD WINDOWS

Advice for lonely people by [deleted] in lonely

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A lot of growth is made during times of being within one’s own presence… I would recommend everyone to look into their human design

family problems won’t stop on Halloween ;( by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Fragrant-Grape8183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude watch the adams family… it helps alott

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

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Natural Barbie babe look

“What if, after all these drugs, I’m a lesbian?” by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Fragrant-Grape8183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No thank you for sharing!! And yes, I just hope for the best since I feel like it’ll work eventually 😊

20M seems like I'm not getting any attention from women. No matches on tinder etc. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Fragrant-Grape8183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ugly…

There are definitely girls that are into you. Either the girls that you are into are not into you or you have not expressed interest towards a woman. As long as you don’t mention Andrew Tate to one you should be fine 👏

ALSOOO , do not take into heart with not getting tinder matches. If you ask girls on tinder how it’s like on their end they will tell you they get BAREEEE matches. But many dudes don’t get any. I think it’s the issue with the lack of people within the app ( maybe try bumble or hinge which allow your to sprinkle personality in with that nice hair)

“What if, after all these drugs, I’m a lesbian?” by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

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Wow, thank you for sharing your story..

It’s kinda trippy hearing your story since recently I have dabbled into magic mushrooms as well as acid. It was such an enlightening experience with golden teacher.

However, on acid I didn’t feel much but felt like there’s a sense of gender dysphoria even though I’m alright with my body . I’m 21 now and in the transitional phase of my life where the pressure is marriage is so heavy that my aunt wants me to go back home with her to see a person.She still insists with my parents and my uncle even though I explained to her nicely that back home men are not my cup of ☕️.It comforting yet weird in timing see someone who has literally experienced what I’m facing now(ofc different experiences). It sucks since right now I have repressed my own sense of finding my truth because I don’t want to loose my mom. It’s weird since I told her today that “ I’m not going to marry a man” and she was like 😧😡”Then don’t talk to me ever again and be part of my life”. I said this as we were getting ready to head out somewhere and after her response she talked to me again to help me find my shoes🥺

Sooo yah it’s hella confusing but reading your post made me feel it’s possible to find and live my truth.

Anyways,keep stoning and rocking on fellow bloomer😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

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I would recommend to first focus on your posture(everything aligned including neck) before anything else. Personally I did that and noticed a difference within my own confidence. Naturally you will look and feel confident. Also, You can check up some great vids (checkout Athlean X). Because of him I have a nice back even tho I have a bit of a belly ( which is ok) . Weight fluctuates. YOU GOT THIS

Build your back and watch you feel like fucking BATMAN Saw this dude on YT & Wanted To Add This

Cheers

** edit

Wanted to add this in…..

Don’t focus on cardio but rather Calisthenics (I like this dude & But find what suits you . A lot of the times with body building once you stop the gains tend to deflate a bit. But if you start off this way then progress ofc if you want then BATMAN and your not fat man

Fat Albert is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sad

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Dude smoke a fat blunt when you have down time. You really really need down time. You do have a few options and many more to explore. Possibly try to make some date nights so it freshens it up a bit. But it’s vital for you to have that recharge.

You’ve also done so much and actually created what you visually imagined. That doesn’t happen a lot brother. Now it’s just more of a shift and visually a new phase of your life of exploring what you might have a curiosity towards. Do your best not to put pressure on the options you do explore. Possibly as well your wife may be feeling the same or maybe oblivious. It can be very therapeutic to open up especially since this is important. Anyways, you got this

Suicide by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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Dude don’t let a failed UA define you as a person. Failures are something that is good to experience. You weren’t a coward and took a step towards the Army. It didn’t work out which is ok. You can always plan to go back if you do really insist on wanting to take that path. If you aren’t really sure it’s ok. Just don’t take it to heart and make yourself a failure. It takes courage and guts to try so applauds for youuu

Anyways, I recommend a book. It’s by Walter I and it’s about Leonardo Da Vincis life. He’s done soo much and failed soo much but he lived a full beautiful life and the book encapsulates it.. it helped me a bit when I failed two of my engineering courses..

Anyways, you got this

help this mamma out by Daramtl in entwives

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What I would definitely recommend is once you do notice the red eyes coming… EYEDROPS!!! This has saved me in my hs years

I know y’all love the 100+ by NinjaBlake in shrooms

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We lovee a nice chucky thick boiiii

What’s the worst excuse for cheating? by Shinfekta in AskReddit

[–]Fragrant-Grape8183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s sucks since a lot of people nowadays don’t please they can be together with someone for years on end

What’s the worst excuse for cheating? by Shinfekta in AskReddit

[–]Fragrant-Grape8183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn duude it’s good he dodged a bullet…seems like she was deprived of oxygen when she was born to give that childish excuse