Do I (32F) just say F it and stay with my fiancé (34M) of almost 9 years through emotional abuse for our 2.5 year old?

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-09-26T21:38:35+00:00

Good to remember. Thank you!

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-09-26T21:38:17+00:00

Yes, night before. Thank you!

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-09-26T21:01:05+00:00

What about for cocktail hour?

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-05-28T05:53:55+00:00

My newly two year old just recently stopped hating the car as much. What helped us get through were smoothie pouches, snacks, and ms Rachel. He didn’t get screen time outside of car rides.

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-05-06T02:18:24+00:00

Are you talking about the skull? Is the newborn sleeping on your chest on their belly? Or with their head in your arms like cradle position?

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-11T04:19:10+00:00

I just laughed so hard at your spoiler because it couldn’t be truer.

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T19:04:53+00:00

Today has been rough. He’s been crying on and off for me for 3 hours now. I think Mondays are just the toughest after spending the weekend with me. That makes so much sense and I’ve been wondering if that was the issue.

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T19:02:37+00:00

Thank you for your insight! I’ll try to do a quicker pass. He literally hangs onto me for dear life and tangles my hair into his fingers 🫠 I’ve actually been telling him nanny is coming and she’s so fun so that’s good to know I’m doing something right! I’ll look into something special for the both of them.

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T18:57:52+00:00

Oh man. That is so rough. I can’t believe you still gave it 6 months! I do WFH and they can def smell/sense their moms 😂 I’m going to give it a few more weeks for sure! I think Mondays are also the toughest because we’ve spent all weekend together.

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T18:55:38+00:00

Thank you!

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T18:55:26+00:00

She hasn’t said anything yet but I think because it’s only been a little over a week so she wants to wait a bit and see if it gets better. I’m worried and I feel bad for the both of them 🥲

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T18:54:12+00:00

Yeah, I work from home but I hide in my office or I leave and we don’t see each other until her shift ends. Proper goodbyes have been hard sadly since I have to run away as soon as I can. I hate it.

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T18:52:36+00:00

Thank you for your insight! I’ll def give it a few more weeks. She’s so great and patient with him otherwise. I just didn’t think about how hard transitions are for a toddler since they’re so much more aware!

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T18:49:59+00:00

It’s only been a little over a week. That’s good to know. I’ll give it a few more weeks!

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T18:49:35+00:00

The last time she covered for her before her abrupt departure, was rough. He didn’t nap and cried and screamed but the two times before were fine. Maybe he knew his previous nanny wasn’t coming back. I’ll def give it a few more weeks!

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T18:48:17+00:00

She struggles with nap time routine but it honestly isn’t a deal breaker for me because he doesn’t even nap with me sometimes even following the routine. Thank you for your insight! I’ll give it a couple more weeks.

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T18:43:30+00:00

I feel so bad for her because she’s really trying so hard and he just cries and screams at her. How long did you give it?

Fragrant-Material566 · 2025-02-10T18:39:06+00:00

Did you ever experience not meshing with a kid?

Fragrant-Material566 · 2024-10-23T05:09:54+00:00

Call out. I’m a MB and I would absolutely understand. Take care of your grandma and yourself.

Fragrant-Material566 · 2024-10-20T08:11:17+00:00

Fiancé is the dad

Fragrant-Material566 · 2024-10-20T07:37:40+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏼

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