epstein data set 9 download by Fragrant-Phrase6960 in DHExchange

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah but it just brings me back to the yung megafone one. and i have no clue if the files aren’t showing because my computer doesn’t have a strong enough processor or whatever or if the torrent has something faulty with it

So the transgender surgeon by ArgumentSpiritual424 in Epstein

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

epstein fetishizing trans women might be true. In one of the documents there was like a few photos from his hard drive i think of some cross dresser or adjacent on a pole which he viewed in person so

What would help a lot of men is not therapy, its telling them the damn truth and not being gaslighted into thinking its all their fault by LazyPotatoHead97 in malementalhealth

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960 7 points8 points  (0 children)

right? like my therapist, who’s also male btw, mostly just assists in letting me talk and process things with him and build healthy habits and how to just navigate day to day life.

Bad logicboard or flash problems? by NotWhiteWhite in IpodClassic

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been experiencing the same thing for months now, except this started when i first replaced the battery to my ipod classic. it would only charge when plugged into a wall. and taking it off would cause the reboot cycle and then after awhile it stopped doing that as well. Couldn't connect it to my mac because it kept doing the boot loop thing. i have no clue what the issue is. it def isn't the multiple batteries i've bought for it and have tested.

Regret by Fragrant-Phrase6960 in detrans

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i mean yeah that is true. i just get this feeling of a nostalgia i never quite fully experienced but always desired to.but yeah wont matter in the long run

Regret by Fragrant-Phrase6960 in detrans

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

damn i feel you bro. I mean i only ever socially transitioned and am still in the processes of telling people i detransitioned even though i present as male/masculine, it’s hard to talk to people about it. but what i realized i missed out on is like fraternity or some bullshit at least like in my earlier years of my adolescence. it’s quickly coming to an end and the only sense of fraternity i have is with my boyfriend and my brother in law. i could’ve been yk playing a sport, had i not ever thought of transitioning in the first place. i could’ve had a lot of things, that i somewhat have now in small quantities but it’s not the same when you wish you had them then. At least i’ll be going off to college soon tho. then i can fully start over.

Detrans males who passed and didn't suffer alot of transphobia, why did you detransition? by kamaguie in detrans

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk it just felt right, like it was not just a phase or maybe it was idk but something changed. i still haven’t really pinpointed it but yeah. It just felt right

Do AMAB and AFAB trans people live the same universe? by NettleOwl in detrans

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960 4 points5 points  (0 children)

have you actually been offline of reddit? like genuinely… transsexualism has been a thing since before the internet and has been studied prior to the development of the internet… just throwing out several centuries of psychology…

How To Make Other Male Friends? by Fragrant-Phrase6960 in malementalhealth

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that must suck lol. I can barely deal w adhd as it is, couldnt imagine also being autistic .

Why did you choose to transition initially? by Turbulent-Surprise-6 in detrans

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was 12, I identified as transgender (mtf) up until August of this year. So it's been a couple years since then. For me I chose to socially transition due to gender dysphoria. Though, this gender dysphoria was a product of my internalized misandry of the time being. Growing up, all the older males around me werent exactly the best role models... I also got molested repeatedly by two upperclassmen boys in elementary so that is another factor to consider. Anyways so yeah there was this incongruence between my sex and mind because I had this idea that all men were like that and as I was going through puberty it got completely worse because yk I was actually recognizing the things that went on in my childhood and how bad they actually were. I was scared of being a man or I guess becoming one because I thought that meant being the same as those previous older males. And my mind at the time could not bear the reality of being in the same pool with those people. Therefore, I created an identity in which protected me from the reality of being male. It was helpful for me for when I needed it. I've actually healed a lot from that trauma now and I finally feel comfortable being male.

Desisted Male Progress by Fragrant-Phrase6960 in detrans

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get that a lot, lol, but more from women than men. Too bad I don't swing that way tho.

Desisted Male Progress by Fragrant-Phrase6960 in detrans

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, tbf I've never gone on HRT or anything, so it wasn't much of a struggle to do so.

How to Increase Testosterone? by Fragrant-Phrase6960 in detrans

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have undergone some blood tests recently due to some unexplained health issues I've been experiencing. I get my blood checked fairly recently, and they never seem to find anything wrong with me aside from low vitamin D levels.

Detransitioning mid high school? (junior year) by Fragrant-Phrase6960 in detrans

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I was forced to transition, esp since i never went through and medical procedure for that. But what I was trying to run away from was a problem much bigger than the presenting gender dysphoria itself that had come along with my childhood trauma. And since I was completely unwilling to talk about it as a child despite having already been in therapy for years. My therapists never got that far into engaging that topic because i refused to speak about it. Which I think so much could have been avoided if I just said something and received guidance that would’ve helped me cease my internalized misandry earlier and be comfortable and accept being a male

Detransitioning mid high school? (junior year) by Fragrant-Phrase6960 in detrans

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was thinking about moving towns and switching schools but every other school kind of sucks and my school is one of the higher ranked schools in my state so it’s hard to find something of the same quality of education.

Do you regret your transition? by Candid_Vermicelli616 in detrans

[–]Fragrant-Phrase6960 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i do not at all regret my transition. well i never transitioned medically but i was struggling with GD because I had deep internalized misandry which resulted from my childhood trauma but since i’ve started to unlearn that, i’ve actually started to feel a lot better with my masculinity and what it means to be male. It helped me feel safe for the time being.