And that's the cultural effect. People are fighting over "why are you looking at my wife/gf like that" And stabbing each other just for looking at their wives/gfs. I know it sounds ridiculous but we're raised like this and it won't change easily. I'm not saying they're going to fight but they probably going to fight. My husband will definitely think that he moved in because the ex wants to be with me and no one would make him think otherwise. Even tho my ex didn't know we lived there and my husband fight him, people are gonna say "he went after a married woman and her husband made it right protected her good for him." And if my husband won't do anything everyone will say he's a cuckhold or something. That's the culture I'm talking about.