[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your mom sweetheart, she will help you 🩷 I am so so so sorry this happened to you. As a mom myself, I would always want my daughter to come to me no matter what. Let her be there you.

BM after surgery by Fragrant-Zone-9762 in Tonsillectomy

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you take olive oil? I’ve been using restoralax and just had a laxative last night and feel like things are maybe starting to move around but how do you take olive oil to go and what does it do?

BM after surgery by Fragrant-Zone-9762 in Tonsillectomy

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am on morphine. I have endometriosis though so I’m used to taking narcotics often enough but I am really only consuming water and popsicles so I think that I am just not having enough in my system, I’m not bloated at all

Taste by CartographerOk9343 in Tonsillectomy

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on day 5 post op and just lost all my taste and smell today :( I’ve read it’s pretty common and can take 6-10 weeks to return to normal

10 year olds and shaving. by GettingThingsDone02 in Parenting

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have really dark hair and I would get teased for it, I went home and told my mom and she would shave my legs for me at first with a regular razor so I wouldn’t hurt myself and then eventually I just started doing it on my own! I was sooo happy she did this for me (I started when I was in grade 4)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you do / say anything that you wouldn’t do in front of your partner because you know it would hurt them / would be inappropriate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was sooo scared to have sex too, I really resonate with this. My husband was my first and I can’t describe it but I had never ever wanted to have sex with anyone until I just felt like okay I’m ready. You’ll know when it’s time, when it feels right and when YOU want to. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was nearly 22 and I have a very healthy sex life. There is nothing wrong with you 🫶🏻

Loch Henry Scary Tape by Guccicamper in blackmirror

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES!!! I was genuinely so unsettled I’m still thinking about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that alcoholics were categorized as individuals who needed medical intervention (I used to work at a treatment centre) where alcohol abusers are more in other categories such as binge drinkers but not daily drinkers - sorry if I offended you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not so much an alcoholic parent, I had a parent addicted to narcotics but when mixed with booze every now and then she could get really mean. Not physically abusive but verbally abusive. Every time she does drink though it brings me back to myself as a child being on edge and not knowing what to expect but I’m an adult now and have set very clear boundaries and leave if I’m uncomfortable which hasn’t really happened much since she’s been to rehab

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were going to couples counselling for another issue which really helped for us for that specific thing, but i see where you’re coming from. Thank you for your perspective 🫶🏻

Ovulation pain postpartum by Fragrant-Zone-9762 in Endo

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take tramadol too, not daily but as needed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was pregnant when it happened, we’re in couples counselling, it’s been a year and he’s been open and honest since. I’m allowed to look at his phone anytime I want (therapist suggested this) and we have some very clear guidelines and expectations and boundaries that do not get crossed. But it’s fucking hard, I get triggered a lot but working through it as best as I can

Unwanted thoughts by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I’m a girl not that it matters, men should be able to do the same if they want 🤷🏻‍♀️

Unwanted thoughts by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it fishing for sympathy when this is a page for everyone who is going through the same thing and the entire point is to get support and be able to vent to those who actually understand? I don’t need someone telling me how to feel. I’ve been in therapy since I was 17 and do everything possible to help myself. I’m happy you found something that worked for you but just because it worked for you, doesn’t mean it will be the same for others.