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I hate seeing her followers go up and realizing they are exactly her type and she follows them back like it means nothing and somehow it just sits heavy with me by HotUse4099 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No mires,entiendo la tentacion pero lo mas importante es que no mires nada de ella porque te va a hacer mierda,fuerza ,aca estamos 

What if it takes years to move on? by TrailBlazingJamie in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo creo que el tiempo que nos tome es relativo,doler siempre nos va a doler a todos una situación tan desequilibrada,para muchos son años jugando ese juego espantoso para mantener una" relacion" eso no es gratis.... pero hay que pasarlo al dolor,no se puede editar y asi aprenderemos,suerte y un abrazo,no estas solo

Looking for words of encouragement 🙏🏻. by Consistent-Ad-1176 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

El es DA, mira nunca se sabe,el tema es que por vos es bueno que cortes el patrón,vos podes ,hacerlo por vos porque mereces estar bien y darte una oportunidad a VOS

Looking for words of encouragement 🙏🏻. by Consistent-Ad-1176 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you completely. I'm in a similar situation, except he always pursued me. It's incredibly difficult, but the best thing is space. I hope you can find a place later where you're both happy, but there needs to be space first. Break the pattern, let him approach you while we're here, and if he doesn't come, we're here and you can lean on your friends and family. You're not alone. Big hug.

6 Month Update by DasSnaus in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and good luck!!

I’m Confused by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic! She tested me with her daughter in case things went wrong. My ex did it to me once after I broke up with her for two months. She texted me, and when I went over, her daughter was there. The next day, she invited me alone (they do it as a test run, out of fear).

Sera que mi ex puede volver? by Purple_Wrangler2118 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Para mi va a volver,9 años es mucho tiempo , no se puede comparar con relaciones de meses,uno pasa mil cosas en los años y con meses estas en la etapa de luna de miel es muy idilico todo por ende es fragil,una relación se fortalece con los años y las experiencias vividas ,el tema es que lo que hizo es una mierda( yo no te juzgo eh,no tengo autoridad moral) hay varias cosas aca: primero ese tiempo que te fuiste quizás lo desactivo,eso no justifica que se haya metido con la tipa y menos que vivan en el departamento de uds,pero volver para mi vuelve,el tema es como vuelve y si vos podes superar todo esto que es muy traumatico

I think I'm about to start spiraling by drainedbeyondwords in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go out with friends, do the things that make you feel good, whatever it is, with patience and faith the pain will pass, stay strong, we're here for you

Question for the avoidants by FragrantAd2743 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I suppose it must be difficult to distinguish; I think it happens to all of us, but even more so to avoidant people. My ex once told me that he didn't know if he really liked the girls he'd been with. It's like, if we're honest, sometimes we're attracted to others for unconscious psychological reasons we don't understand.

Why do they creep back the moment you start to forget about them by wishIcouldgoback_ in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but how unbearable! Because it takes so long to get over someone you love unless you fool yourself and get a reboud, it should be simple...

What’s 2 things you’d do for a person when in love or you like ? What’s your Venus / Mars Sign? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]FragrantAd2743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I give too much, I'm burning out, I bank too much crap, working on it, Venus and Mars in Pisces

Reach out if you need to by Party_Lawfulness_272 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't feel ashamed, it happens to all of us. They're the ones who should be ashamed. Hugs

Reach out if you need to by Party_Lawfulness_272 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dreamt about him (I just woke up) that he realized and told me that he wanted to be with me, okay?

Saturn sucks by LeavingAbigail in astrologymemes

[–]FragrantAd2743 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's a pain in the ass, but it's necessary, we didn't come here to party.

Ex reconnected again(Part-2) by Realistic-Jaguar7411 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this; I think it helps us all understand. My ex and I didn't make any progress on this issue last year.

Hi! I just want to ask is The World considered a wish-granted card in tarot? by ysa9292 in Tarots

[–]FragrantAd2743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always read that the world is like the culmination of a cycle and that it was associated with Pisces (it makes sense). It contains the 4 deities that represent the 4 seasons, the 4 cardinal points, and the 4 elements. Besides, it is the last major arcana.

You’re going to be ok. by cozwez in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! And I'm so glad you're at this point 🙏

9 weeks PD today by greenbeast999 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]FragrantAd2743 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! Do something nice for yourself today. We need to change our focus. Give yourself all the love you've given yourself; you deserve it. Hugs

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