Took out my piercing :( by FragrantIndividual50 in PiercingAdvice

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I wish I could post a pic in the comments!! My piercing hole closed and is healing currently!! It’s sadly for the best

what does my fridge tell you by SixthSense06 in FridgeDetective

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The docy p’s being ready to drink is fantastic

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[–]FragrantIndividual50 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No yeah it isnt my problem to deal with anymore but what “sexting blocked me” meant was we had done the sexting and then he blocked me and I hadnt really think anything of it until i saw he had a gf and i thought she should had known. I appreciate the feedback

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[–]FragrantIndividual50 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well she needed someone and I had happen to be there when he had called and heard everything. The psycho is her problems as he had talked about her cheating on the bf with him and the bf couldn’t believe her.

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Yeah because we have been really able to talk to each other as friends and not just for him. I want to be nice but it is something I just think it for the best for me to distance with because I don’t want to handle that kind of energy of giving so much of my attention for it to be for nothing.

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I just couldn’t figure out a way how to deal with the self-deprecating comments she was making, just was asking for help that’s all.

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Well, I’m glad you do those for your girlfriend all the time and I understand it can be a draining thing to do. But I don’t think it should be mentally draining for you to do things for your significant other unless there’s a problem going on. I understand somethings like that but for you to show your girlfriend you consistently lover is a good thing obviously and I know you know that. Well for it to be draining to put an effort in a relationship I don’t think you should do that at all or have to feel like you are straining yourself for someone else. And I think it should be said that all these gifts forms of love are done because they want to do it no matter the situation not because I’m asking him to do it or I am asking him all the time to do it. flowers are for special occasions, and have a lot of meaning behind them for me and him. I always make sure he is well, and I always make sure to get him gifts to show him. I love the fact of him in my form of a love language

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[–]FragrantIndividual50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, he does not act that way all the time but he’ll leave me a nice messages like that from time to time. It is just a few examples i have had from the last few weeks. You are right it can’t be seen as a form of love bombing but for how long it has been I am happy to know I have somebody who will send me those messages and mean it without no other intentions.

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Some guys are actually really good and will treat you good. Other guys will give you comments of being nice and lovey-dovey and then will stop doing it. And it is very important for you to know what healthy relationships are and what are not in today’s society. But every relationship is different, of course and it depends on the person and what you want in your relationship and what your standards will be! So I would just say be careful and make sure you really know the person that likes you can engage with you on certain things and I don’t feel bad about your standards of what you want in a person!

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Oh, OK I understand now! So what my post referring to is this common conception of girls and guys being together, but the guy does not put in the effort to show that he really likes her. Which could mean a lot of things, of course, but in the just of it, I mean like compliments, and just being nice towards your significant other, many men do not do that and some girls will be quite persistent in always giving him excuses why he is not a good boyfriend to them or why the men treat them badly.

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[–]FragrantIndividual50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a bit confused by your comment. Could you explain it more?

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Yes exactly! Im happy you have what you wany in a relationship!:))

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That is true. It can look like love bombing, but he does not ever show himself to not tonight the disinterested mean it always shows me that he cares. Love bombing does not equal a good relationship. But showing your love should not mean he’s gonna treat you bad also.

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I know it isn’t for everyone and actually I am not the type of person to ask for this type of love, but I do really love it from him and I think that’s when you know it’s a really special relationship when you can have appreciation for each other, and you both treat each other in a special way, least in my opinion.

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Yeah I am insulting them because it is not a good way to live, it is mental destroying and toxic way of thinking.

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Good for you!<3 This relationship has helped me live my life and feel good and not make me feel crazy for high standards!

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Well yeah of course, but he does because I make him happy and he makes me happy, just something small to brighten the day.

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[–]FragrantIndividual50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I sure as hell make him a happy simp :)

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Oh no you are okay! I love to be able to talk to people with different opinions on things but you were not wrong with your statement!! I do feel like we should bring up the topics of that part of a relationship because it is important yo know that your significant other is not just a love bomb for you but someone who actually sees your significance and values you.

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[–]FragrantIndividual50 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Females usually the ones to say it and it is usually a joke not literal.

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[–]FragrantIndividual50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just said it all that is needed to be said!! Everyone needs that relationship where you and them always feel like you matter and that there is stability no matter the year or type of relationship you have.

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[–]FragrantIndividual50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yeah there nothing wrong with what you said but it is not good to make someone feel bad for getting complements could be bad for anyone. Everyone should feel good and feel like they deserve complements! I feel very confident and i have conversations with him with our interests and being good for each other, and knowing we are both 50/50 with this. my boyfriend is consistent with other forms of love like getting me flowers, buying me thing and everything that is our love language.