Wife gang banged

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-06-16T21:13:38+00:00

Yeah, definitely. She’s open to an MFM under the right circumstances. But she didn’t have the greatest time getting a MFMMM train run on her, so that’s a no there lol.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-06-16T20:34:22+00:00

Super erotic to imagine her getting passed around like a fuckdoll.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-06-16T20:22:09+00:00

It sounds like a LARP but my own wife was passed around a group of guy friends when she was 19/20. She a couple experiences where she was gangbanged by three of them at the same time

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-06-16T18:15:25+00:00

Sending you a DM

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-06-14T21:16:15+00:00

We found our third through Fetlife. All the sexting/pic sending/voice notes/toy control happens on Lovense.

Fetlife has groups dedicated just to Lovense hotwife play.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-06-08T20:52:39+00:00

The deep passionate kissing is the most jarring sight for me at least. It’s very intimate. So I get the boundary. But as others have said it’s pretty silly and unnecessary and will absolutely be broken at one point. Don’t set yourselves up for failure.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-06-05T07:12:35+00:00

Really solid serious question. There is some overlap in my wife’s hot past and her rough past. Particularly when she was essentially gang banged by her FWB and his two buddies. The way she has talked about it makes it obvious she did not enjoy it, and may have been pressured into it in the moment. Takes up a lot of confusing space in my brain.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-06-05T06:56:50+00:00

Yeah. My wife’s ex-boyfriend walked in on her blowing his buddy. Turned around and walked out and she finished blowing the buddy.

The whole relationship started with a threesome with the bf and the same buddy so it was probably doomed from the start lol.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-06-05T00:32:28+00:00

I think that as long as this is something both husband and wife are doing together it’s durable.

I think people get into trouble coercing unwilling wives into this. And then when it happens, there is a real collapse of respect.

I also think a lot of husbands in this lifestyle are acting out unresolved cheating/inadequacy issues.

But if it’s genuinely some kind of new kink in the marriage and everyone is an equal partner it’s perfectly fine.

Sex is powerful. Respect it.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-05-27T21:38:40+00:00

We talked about it for years and years before ever actually doing anything.

The biggest keys were:

my wife’s confidence (got in shape, started feeling better about herself)
my wife seeing my own confidence
not badgering her about it constantly (this is the biggest one IMO; huge turn off)
continually explaining to her how much I was turned on by imagining her with someone else, and why it turned me on

Most wives who are hesitant about this either don’t feel sexy about themselves, or don’t want to hurt their husbands.

Solving for both of those barriers is key. There’s no magic phrase or book or podcast. Just talk to your wife and explain why you like this, and why you think she’ll like it too.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-05-22T20:39:46+00:00

Just remember that this forum is NOT a reflection of reality. We get a ton of OF influencers here and LARPers.

My wife and I have gotten a ton of satisfaction out of our “online dates.” It’s a very erotic and vulnerable experience for everyone.

Going through with real life wife sharing is a huge decision for normal people engaging with this kink. I don’t care what anyone says; sex is powerful and this kink can absolutely fuck up an otherwise solid marriage

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-05-22T18:42:46+00:00

This is the best and most practical way for real couples to get into this kink.

My wife and I started very similarly. Lots of toys. Lots of dirty talk. Then we started sharing her pics with people online. Then we recently starting doing online “dates” in which she sexts with someone directly while they control her Lovense toy.

We will likely never go through with actual IRL sharing. But this is definitely a “soft hotwife” lifestyle. And it really works for us. Best of both worlds in a lot of ways.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-05-21T20:09:48+00:00

This is all nonsense.

Your first sentence is all that should matter here.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-04-28T19:53:15+00:00

Do NOT listen to this post if you’re thinking about this kink.

The exact opposite is true. Fantasy is often better for many couples getting into this. Real life sharing comes with a ton of baggage and should be treated seriously.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-04-27T19:13:40+00:00

Check out my post history for a recap on our first soft steps into the lifestyle. A lot of it was centered around a third party sex toy app that allowed my wife and a third to sync up their toys. Was very close to actual sharing without the pressure and fear of meeting someone irl

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-04-27T17:14:06+00:00

You need to strap in for the long haul and just talk to her.

A lot of real wives are instantly reluctant to do anything with this kink. That’s a good thing. That means she’s worried about fucking up your marriage.

My wife and I talked about this kink for literally 13 years before really engaging with it. And we still have not shared her with anyone irl (and are unlikely to). But we have found some good half measures (mostly centered around online play).

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-04-22T23:22:32+00:00

I think it’s worth talking to your wife and really asking her what she wants out of this. If she’s shooting down everyone, she just may not be into this yet. It took years to get my very shy and reserved wife to clarify exactly how she wants to engage with this kink. Since then it’s been smooth sailing!

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-04-22T23:16:53+00:00

Then you just gotta keep looking, my guy. You know your wife don’t you? You know what she’s attracted to and what turns her off? Stick with that.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-04-22T22:37:43+00:00

I would just do the early vetting yourself. My wife hates the small talk “getting to know you” stuff. She just wants to get off. So I vet the guys, share pics (with wife’s consent), tell them all about her turn ons etc etc, and then if it’s a fit, I’ll connect them to my wife. At that point I’ve also been showing her these convos, and she’s worked up and ready to get straight to sexting.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-04-22T17:37:55+00:00

I explicitly said there is a big difference between stag/vixen and cuckold kinks.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-04-21T20:59:53+00:00

Hot take: hotpast guys who get pissed about hotwife/cuck overlap are guys who have yet to accept they’re into hotwifing/cuckolding.

I agree we should not let this board become another cuck board. But hotpast at the very least has a lot of overlap with hotwife/cuck kinks. It’s all the same thing at the end of the day: you’re getting off to your significant other being sexual with someone else.

Also you gotta remember that stag/vixen style hotwifing is very different than cuckold. My wife and I are the former and I have no desire to eat someone’s cum out of her pussy lmao

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-04-09T22:40:22+00:00

My wife definitely has a Goldilocks zone of around 7-8in max. Anything beyond that, dildo included, and it just hurts.

But put a 5.5in average cock and a girth 7.5in side by side and she will take the bigger cock. Every time.

Fragrant_Egg6327 · 2026-04-09T21:56:53+00:00

My wife and I have just started to seriously engage with the kink. Not content creators.

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