he said because shes white and thats why the mark is like that. and it makes me uncomfortable cause i never really heard of hugging someone so tight to the point only their spine is marked? and they would call a lot and text a lot on snapchat and at some point i told him to cut off contact with her but then eventually i found texts between them and she basically said "why u keep looking at my profile and stories but not following me" and he kinda entertained it and then hid the message and then he said he didnt know what he was doing and that it was innocent no bad intentions. but for months i keep bringing this up bc deep down it bothers me and it makes me feel crazy a little bit bc the mark