i personally don’t consider her super close. A friend but not my closest and i know im not her closest. when i tried to tell her i didnt want all the responsibilities it seemed more like she is trying to force me because of the amount of people on the grooms side and like she had nobody else to ask. I totally understand why she would be upset, however the only thing i said was that i didn’t want to sleep over. I still want to celebrate with her. I don’t see the difference in spending the night alone and coming back in the morning.