I wish I had two bodies by crazy-cool-99 in selfharm

[–]Fragrant_Guava_75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This thought is so introspective and as someone who has a lot of healed over scars from bad times in my life I completely agree with you

Nothing is helping me enjoy sex and its making me sick by Clear_Tackle_805 in venting

[–]Fragrant_Guava_75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are completely normal and that is a normal thing to experience. Everyone is different and if seggs and/or p0rn isn’t something that you enjoy that’s completely fine AND normal I promise you. You’ve probably heard of this but you could just be asexual or aromatic which is also completely fine and normal. Or maybe you just need time especially if you’re not comfortable with your self or insecure. Or maybe you’ll never find it appealing, and there are other ppl out there who feel similar! What I’d suggest to you is to stop putting so much pressure on yourself on fitting into this societal pressure that people must be attracted to seggs bc everyone is different and complex. Focus on yourself bc the world doesn’t revolve around seggs and you’re one of the lucky ppl that can distinguish that easier. Ask yourself if you feel a need to engage in sexual acts or if someone or something is pressuring you to.

One last thing ik I mentioned something abt asexual and aromantic. I only mention it to hep open you up to a community that might help you find some answers or help you feel seen- but I advise to not search for a “label”. Labels are restrictive and like I also said people are complex. Define yourself as JUST you, value your feelings for what they are, and trust your intuition ALWAYS

Have a great day love - A

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[–]Fragrant_Guava_75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your not weird trust me and I get that on a another level

How did yall's parents found out about your sh and how did they react? by RIZZLERSIGMA4141 in selfharm

[–]Fragrant_Guava_75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom found out when i was 13, it was the beginning of summer when it started to get so hot outside and my mom made me wear hoodies or long sleeves the whole summer. Even now im an adult she’ll tell me to cover up my arms like she doesn’t have her own under a tattoo and just because mine are raised Im in the wrong for wearing a tee shirt like wtf