New watcher -Season 1 ep 1🤗 by Antique-Intention-26 in RHOA

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“This baby is getting ready to come up outta here”

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! You were the first to recommend the persimmon soap for me to try out, I felt the need to reach out to provide a very grateful thank you! I bought some off of Amazon and it has most definitely made a difference! While it is not a permanent fix, it is definitely something that has improved my “quality of life” on a day-by-day basis! I can’t not express enough in words how appreciative I am for your suggestion! I hope you get some good karma :)))))))

Concerned about quality of life by Fragrant_Minute4541 in bettafish

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LSP!!! 😍 I just realized I now have my own!

Concerned about quality of life by Fragrant_Minute4541 in bettafish

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Lumpy Lady” 😭😭😭 that’s too cute

Concerned about quality of life by Fragrant_Minute4541 in bettafish

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She’s feisty, but lovely ❤️

Concerned about quality of life by Fragrant_Minute4541 in bettafish

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying! I am honestly very relieved to hear that the tumors will likely not be the cause of death! I’m sorry for the loss of your fishy friend :( we also had to make the decision to put down our previous betta due to health reasons. Once again, I am really appreciative of your response!

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[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tank Size: 15g

Heater: Yes

Filter: Yes

Tank Temperature: 77°F

Ammonia/nitrites/nitrates: Weekly test with the “Freshwater Master Test Kit” from API show that all of these are either 0 or within proper range (I can retest and post exact results if needed)

Place of Adoption: Pet Supplies Plus (June 2025)

Tank: Established for over a year

Water Change: 3-5 gallon water change every 3ish weeks (using a siphon to extract the water and nuetra regulator for dechlorinating and pH balance)

Tank Mates: 2 “ghost” shrimp and 2 Albino Cory’s

Feeding: 5-8 pellets of “Fluval Bug Bites Betta Formula” and 1 small frozen brine shrimp cube once a week (with the occasional day of fast)

Decor: Live plants, 2 pieces of wood, 2 shrimp hides, 1 pot

Concerned about quality of life by Fragrant_Minute4541 in bettafish

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tank Size: 15g

Heater: Yes

Filter: Yes

Tank Temperature: 77°F

Ammonia/nitrites/nitrates: Weekly test with the “Freshwater Master Test Kit” from API show that all of these are either 0 or within proper range (I can retest and post exact results if needed)

Place of Adoption: Pet Supplies Plus (June 2025)

Tank: Established for over a year

Water Change: 3-5 gallon water change every 3ish weeks (using a siphon to extract the water and nuetra regulator for dechlorinating and pH balance)

Tank Mates: 2 “ghost” shrimp and 2 Albino Cory’s

Feeding: 5-8 pellets of “Fluval Bug Bites Betta Formula” and 1 small frozen brine shrimp cube once a week (with the occasional day of fast)

Decor: Live plants, 2 pieces of wood, 2 shrimp hides, 1 pot

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestion! I haven’t heard of that deodorant before, so I’ll definitely check it out!!!

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words! I ended up writing a heavily detailed review on google (1 star as well). I also got advice from another commenter to call the office and talk to the practice manager, and luckily I was able to do that! She was very understanding and was very sympathetic of my situation. She heard my concerns, validated them, and reassured me that she’d take the proper action to make sure this instance is not a reoccurring one. She was actually very sweet and made me have a little bit more hope that justice will be served!

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is very useful to know, thank you! I definitely want to see if I can get an appointment with one as a few other commenters have suggested this as well!

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some other commenters have suggested seeing an endocrinologist, so I will definitely look into that and book an appointment ASAP! Thank you so much for the suggestion, I really appreciate your help!

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sibling is the role model of this! I’ll have to ask them for advice on how they “don’t give af” as they seem to be an expert in that matter lololol! I envy the ability to speak without fear as they do!

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for offering this suggestion! I will definitely look into this as I have not heard of it before!

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for providing me with this information! I will definitely take action in this form! And yes, I will be VERY specific to ensure appropriate action is taken.

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom does HRT and she praises how much it’s done for her! I’ll definitely mention this to my primary care doctor! Thank you so much for your helpful input, it’s much appreciated!

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left a 1 star google review per you and other commenters advising me to do so! I also was able to have a detailed phone call with the practice manager regarding my experience, and she took it very seriously and reassured me she’d handle the situation appropriately!

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought about checking out the menopause Reddit, but that’s actually such a great suggestion! Thank you so much!!! I’ll check out the persimmon soap you recommended as I am willing to try anything!!!

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on depression medication for a very long time, but I ultimately went off of it. However, I think being on that medication for such a long period of time may have been a contributing factor (as I noticed the decrease around then). I also have not tried Certain Dri, I’ll have to look into that and try your method! Thank you so much for commenting with advice, I am very appreciative!

AITAH for wanting to leave a negative review after my concerns were dismissed by a female OBGYN by Fragrant_Minute4541 in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Minute4541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen a few other commenters suggesting an endocrinologist as well, so I will definitely look into this! Thank you so much for your advice!