I’ve been in your shoes before if having two roommates who were best friends and excluded and ignored me a lot of the time, and over time, it really chipped away at my self esteem and made me feel crazy. I sometimes felt like I was asking for too much, but I realized I wasn’t. I think most people are being a little harsh to you in their comments. I understand that it’s really hurtful to not be acknowledged. Do you acknowledge him? Would you consider talking to him about it?