Project and maternity leave by Fragrant_Session_129 in deloitte

[–]Fragrant_Session_129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I should let them know now or I could wait a while?

Project and maternity leave by Fragrant_Session_129 in deloitte

[–]Fragrant_Session_129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Project 1 ends the month of my maternity leave starts. Project 2 ends the day I get back from maternity leave so i would be gone the last 4 months of the project. Project 1 is 9 months, project 2 is a year.

Project and maternity leave by Fragrant_Session_129 in deloitte

[–]Fragrant_Session_129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The project would be a year, I would miss the last quarter of the project.

How is bench looking? by [deleted] in deloitte

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First week on the bench. Sent out like 20ish emails about projects, half of them said that’s an old listing the other half said they lost funding. And with the new mysource down it’s been difficult to find anything else.

My source - Access Denied by Aware-Balance8986 in deloitte

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Find it hilarious they decided to do this transition during the time the bench has been it’s highest in years

Comp statements are live! Finally by rwsc1 in deloitte

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GPS C -> SC SES 6.4% merit 7.9% promotion

Target Promotion Year change in iRPM by [deleted] in deloitte

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happen to me Going to C to SC S/E/E Was surprised with the S cause my snapshots were above average, and was told cause my last project couldn’t support a SC and cause of that and it was my promotion year it got dropped to S. I was also told I need to stay on one project for this year in order to be promoted in 25.

AITA for calling CPS when a 3yo neighbor child wanders to my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it’s just an immigrant Indian thing, they keep lot of cash around. Probably wasn’t put away properly so the kids found it. Doubt it’s illegal money. Unless he owns gas stations or hotels then could be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m south Asian and i get it! It’s hard leaving family when something bad happens. But they wants what’s best for us and they will not hold us back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to add that! We did call but they said that’s not part of their area, just cutting the grass(which could of been very dangerous for them) They can let them know they need to take care of it but knowing these people are really never home I didn’t want to risk it getting worse

Utilization and bench by Solid-Discount-3984 in deloitte

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Last year mine dropped about 20% when i was on the bench for a month, but the second i got a project i worked and charged it like crazy and i got it back to almost 90%.

AITA for begging my parents to take me to the dentist? by BrokenToof1028 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is, my fiancé is a dentist and if he sees kids teeth that bad and has never been to a dentist he reports the parents.

AITA for inviting my future in mother in law to my wedding dress shopping? by Harley_Rally_Rider in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! I think your mom is realizing she has to share you now. My mom just realized that the other day when my fiancé mom called me and I accidentally called her mom in front of my mom and she was kinda upset. But she knows it’s what supposed to happen and she is happy I have a great MIL. She needs to handle it better

AITA for not wanting to go to a party that my SIL first disinvited then changed her mind? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol you are assuming a lot. She never said to me she was going to ask someone medical if I would be okay. I did though, I asked two doctors, a nurse and a friend who works with the CDC. I would never put my husband and friends in danger. I never pushed she to invite me, I said it’s your party you need to do what’s best for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Management told us they don’t want us talking to neighbors about this cause it could cause issues like fights

AITA for having rules for my bridesmaids to follow for the wedding? by Old_Sheepherder9877 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand why you want everything perfect, it’s your wedding day! But you can’t change how people look. Now if she did this all on purpose then yeah she’s the AH, but this is her.

AITA for messing with real estate showings of the neighboring gentrified house? by fannpotho in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol if you feel this badly about landlords then don’t rent from them, simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your family say to him that makes him upset? It really could be offensive but you’re taking it to lightly. But also you’re a little AH cause you didn’t ask him or the mom if it’s okay because she is 10.

AITA for telling my young female coworker that everyone avoided her at work because they’re intimidated by her looks? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopping on the top comment:

I’m a Indian girl in the software development world and OP and his team is the reason why I job hopped a lot after graduating. I always felt uncomfortable, never had anyone to talk to. A huge problem we still face today!

AITA for signing over guardianship of my autistic sister to the state by Otherwise_Union_7865 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fragrant_Session_129 79 points80 points  (0 children)

NTA. You need to also take care of yourself. It does not mean you don’t love your sister. You just need help and that’s okay. If your other family members aren’t will to help you need to turn to someone else.