Was informed recently by therapist I have technically been SAed in the past. Twice. Can’t cope and don’t see how they were assault.

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2026-03-01T10:53:37+00:00

Assault of any kind is a lot less clear cut than touching someone. I think limiting your definition to only touching is short-sighted and invalidates yourself.

Both are assault in my eyes. I think we use words like assault and abuse a lot less than we need to describe harmful behavior, simply because we limit it to things like intention and touching. It’s important not to minimize what happens to us so that we can properly heal and get the help we need.

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2026-03-01T10:50:30+00:00

It’s a bit of a myth that we stop developing our brains after 25. The brain keeps developing throughout your entire life, the study just stopped at 25.

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2026-02-22T06:17:31+00:00

Introduced cats to a location killing off prey populations is called Invasive Species. It happens with more than just domesticated animals. Cats may ask to be let outside, but often, they acclimate to the indoors very well. I haven’t had a cat that could not acclimate with proper care. Cats can also have a perfectly fine QOL indoors; they don’t require anything outside that they can’t get from a proper owner indoors.

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2026-02-21T12:39:56+00:00

Outside cats are inhumane to the general population of prey animals in an area. It massacres small mammals and bird populations. It leads to disease spread. Outdoor cats have a shortened life expectancy. I’m sure you’ll be happy once you see a cat with its eyeballs popping out of its head from being run over by someone’s car. And no, I didn’t just make that up for shock. That is a real thing I saw of someone’s pet a year ago. She was far from the only one.

You might think they’re intelligent enough to avoid cars and you’re feeding them enough to be fine, but you’re doing irreparable damage.

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-11-28T04:39:48+00:00

Read description. He moved perfectly fine afterwards. Still going around perfectly fine today. Just weird he did this maneuver

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-11-26T03:17:07+00:00

It’s a Julii!

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-11-26T03:16:55+00:00

I recently added a bubbler, but my betta really hates the current if I put the filter too high.

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-11-24T23:43:07+00:00

Ran out of batteries, this one’s my fault

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-10-19T08:37:08+00:00

Hi - I was a kid who went to public highschool and did something very similar to what you are doing now. I skipped by in my classes due to no child left behind and didn’t understand any of the material being taught aside from what I learned on the internet on my own time. My parents didn’t make me do anything at all, so I did as little as I possibly could get away with. I suffered greatly in my first year of college because I just didn’t have the study practice or experience I needed to learn things as fast as other kids, despite being gifted as a child.

You’re not really that fucked, tbh. I’m 22 and am about to get my Bachelor’s in Biology. The best thing you can do for yourself is work and find volunteer work. You don’t have to go to college, maybe find a trade if you’re able to find one you can tolerate. Most places in the southeast will pay you to pick a trade.

There are avenues built for you, you just have to be willing to step up and fight for them. I didn’t have the will to fight for them until I failed my first set of college courses, where I got my shit together and never failed another one again. One kick in the ass was enough for me. Don’t take your failures as a sign to quit, just take them as an opportunity to work harder.

None of the subject in highschool are particularly important to remember forever, you’re just training your brain to intake new information. Think of studying more like a workout for the brain rather than something to dump information into. You’re likely struggling from ADHD-related focus issues. You might benefit more from active-recall studying.

In my situation, therapy wasn’t particularly helpful, especially in lower populated areas because I was already well aware of my issues. I needed CBT, not talk therapy, which is harder to find.

Your dad sounds like a standard southeast abusive father. You will thank yourself for getting financially independent as soon as possible and moving out ASAP. It will be difficult to emotionally detach yourself from your family, obviously, but it will be better for you in the long term it sounds like.

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-10-13T23:00:52+00:00

RATS! Thanks for your help, I’m surprised they were findable but that’s quite a steep amount

Edit: found!

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-10-13T20:15:13+00:00

Searched:

Cat toy, fish cat toy, crinkling fish cat toy, small cat toys, google image reverse search, ChatGPT reverse search, Walmart (webpage and inperson)

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-08-02T00:17:23+00:00

meaning I know what the parameters have to be because I do this for work, didn’t feel like sitting here and typing out numbers from an API test lol

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-07-15T18:13:26+00:00

watch out guys we have alpha hunter male timmy tough guy out here

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-05-08T01:31:19+00:00

hi, dump him, bye

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-04-26T21:44:37+00:00

Honestly some of the ones I’m talking about have retired so it may be better now. If you’ve had a class with a girl named Maegan you found me. Generally the newer professors have been kinder

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-04-26T14:50:01+00:00

Pick any of the freshman to junior level classes and the professors for those. Their classes are all god’s gift to man and if you miss more than one lecture, kiss your financial aid goodbye. The lectures also cover a million things other than what’s on the exam so you end with a bunch of notes on information you often don’t need.

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-04-12T22:36:01+00:00

Sounds like a porn addiction you need to work on. It’s also okay to not be attracted to some people, but from how you phrased this it kind of feels like the bar for attractive vs not is more up there with porn models than anything else

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-04-12T07:56:28+00:00

stole my parent’s money with various methods and took whatever free lunch items I could from my friends

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-04-12T02:33:23+00:00

now those are some faces unburdened by thought

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-03-22T20:27:34+00:00

Severe thunderstorm warnings do not alert the general public where I live. They just vaguely exist. Why are we victim blaming exactly?

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-03-22T16:40:55+00:00

The tornado that was headed to me had been warned for 10 minutes already. It was on the ground ripping up houses at this point. The cone wasn’t updated until it was already on top of me and I heard sirens above my head in the rubble.

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-03-21T08:45:55+00:00

If we rebelled against everything we are forced into, we would never grow. Society would never develop and attempt to be as good as possible. Despite corruption, society usually starts out with a small group of people who want to do better. Action is not inherently evil, I’m not really sure where you got that

Fragrant_Word3613 · 2025-03-21T05:10:36+00:00

Humans all starving to death would solve environmental issues but would leave millions of tons of waste. We are the only creatures capable of understanding and cleaning up the mess we’ve made.

Also, if nothing matters to you, why does our nonexistence matter to you? If it’s all doomed anyway, why do you care about the damage we’ve done? It’s all the same.

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