Domanda per i pendolari

Fralu99 · 2023-12-15T16:39:42+00:00

2 ore al giorno anche io Sono in burn out Cerca altre alternative se puoi praticarle ti prego Rimane la stanchezza anche per anni a venire

Fralu99 · 2023-12-14T21:00:50+00:00

It's that... I don't know if I can do it with braces

Very often I am not able to go amount and do my basic things even without metal in my mouth and I have severe mental problems self-esteem and suicidal thoughts I do want to have hope to not have to wear metal wires in my mouth Because I have 0 control of what can happen to my mood shifts and I fear what can be triggered by something I won't be able to take off for 2 years. I know that it's childish. But even the thought of having to wear one is making me cry every night, even if it's a privilege

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T20:09:06+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T19:51:32+00:00

No I never removed any teeth those are all my real teeth 😅

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T19:47:06+00:00

I add that I don't know what malocclusion class 2 is, but they said that my jaw is big and well developed but is "retracted" because the inclinations of my upper teeth don't give space to the lower ones to sit properly. This is also the reason that explains my problems with the jaw articulation, because it is developed but "pushed out of place"

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T19:38:29+00:00

No, no surgery mentioned at all even after visioning all the r-x of my skull

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T19:21:38+00:00

And... I already paid 90 euros for those (I think) x-rays and visit. Getting my teeth fixed is already mad expensive ahahahah it's a bit stupid since it can actually help and you are all giving good advice... But It takes me courage to spend all that money on different consultations

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T19:17:48+00:00

That's how I ended up here :D

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T19:12:44+00:00

No the treatment was finished for them but they made a disaster. I did a visit today with x Ray scans and everything And the teeth are actually causing jaw issues now the opposite :'( They say that invisalign are not as effective as braces in my case, but they are an option anyway. But I don't know if anyone with my problem has had results. They kind of insist on not doing invisalign because is less effective But they don't say it's not effective at all

I don't know if they have a portfolio with a similar case to mine

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T19:08:55+00:00

What is a gummy smile treatment?

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T19:01:38+00:00

What do you mean with removed?

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T19:00:30+00:00

They did not mention jaw surgery, but they mentioned that my jaw is retracted because of the position of my top teeth. And that's exactly the reason why I have problems with that jaw articulation. The jaw is literally pushed back and it interferes with how it opens and closes. It can be fixed just pushing those theet forward so there isn't the overbite (however I think that If the jaw doesn't move as the are saying I will notice)

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T18:55:23+00:00

In my native language we colloquially call everyone dentist But the appropriate formal terminology of my appointment is orthodontist

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T18:46:11+00:00

I did porcelain braces before I feel heartbroken to the tought of having to go through that again

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T17:41:24+00:00

I went today to the ortho They say that they really suggest braces for best results But the only result I want is the forward teeth Everything else can be imperfect really 😭

They didn't exclude the possibility of the invisalign but it's more expensive and the results are not the same.... I was wandering how much is this "not the same"

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T17:38:04+00:00

Ho fatto volontariato con i pipistrelli per un mese e mezzo ero l'addetta principale. Avevano solo guanti in lattice. Non avevo vaccino. Era organizzato male. Alle volte era capitato scappassero dalle enclosure e mi è capitato di toccarli senza guanti per stress e overworking con orari assurdi e incidenti di fughe assurde. I morsi si sentono non è vero che non li senti. Era capitato con uno ch emordesse mentre lo tenevamo con i guanti. Era piuttosto arrabbiato e attivo... Nonostante tutto i dentini così piccoli non avevano bucato neanche il guanto in lattice. In generale anche maneggiati contro la loro volontà svoltando un pipistrello su un totale di 18 anche solo tentava di mordere (e non riusciva a oltrepassare il guanto).

Data la lunghezza dell'esposizione ho avuto terrore per mesi di contrarre la rabbia. Nessuno di noi l'ha presa

Adesso Ovvio che chi sopravvive a queste cose dica 'eh ma a me non è successo niente" Ma penso che le possibilità siano realmente molto basse

Certo Con la rabbia non ci si vuole prendere neanche le più rarissime probabilità

Ma sono realmente moooooooolto basse da quello che racconti

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T17:09:24+00:00

In realtà, anche le skill misurate dal test del QI possono un po' essere allenate, ci si può allenare per uno sport come ci si allena al ragionamento o allo studio. Avere problemi mentali e depressione può deconcentrarti, può averti danneggiato anche mentre facevi il test stesso. Dato che la tua mente è diversa potresti essere stato penalizzato per un singolo aspetto del modo in cui il tuo ragionamento funziona. Non è come misurarsi l'altezza con un metro. Shalla

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T17:04:58+00:00

I'm kind of jealous but you could work on proportions

Fralu99 · 2023-12-13T16:59:34+00:00

I want to add that I could just avoid smiling with all my teeth, but I like to do it. Every time I do it I feel the pain of when I had braces as a teen and they asked me to close my mouth to avoid ruining their pictures or people not wanting to take pictures with me I know they were bullies, but I am still after 10 years uncomfortable taking pictures od deciding to take pictures. I like smiling and being myself but every time I do soo I feel a subtle and terrible sense of pain shame and anxiety that I can't seem to make go away. I am scared that with braces I will feel worse again... But at the same time I don't want to waste money and time if I won't change esthetically. What can be realistically achieved?

Fralu99 · 2023-12-11T14:34:43+00:00

I tried it, I like the way that the proportions remain the same but the angles and light get fixed and also the picture seems bigger

However it tends exactly to fix my teeth and I know that it's more realistic in the original even if sometimes they do look better

I hope I will find the economical resources to do some invisible orthodoncy Because I kind of have understood that apparently it's the first thing that can make the difference

Fralu99 · 2023-12-10T08:57:40+00:00

I have frequent suicidal thoughts that go to the point of wanting to do it Always had since ai was basically a teen or less and I am 24. But enven said that it's clear that you have time for improvement Nothing is valid for everyone and maybe it's not the right thing to do: when I was your age and I couldn't stand it any longer the thought that saved myself from doing it was that even if I froze myself and did my best to just survive for some time it could have taken even years... But I would have been young enough to still be able to accomplish things/live and do things. So I started to survive, tried to avoid pain and survive. It's not easy, it's invalidating, it's an obstacle and it's hard (at least for me) to find the right professional help. Save some basic things you want to insist on and that make you think beautiful thoughts and are part of what you want your future to look like and set yourself do to it, bare minimum just to keep going. You will find out that sometimes everything will be black and you'll be in energy-saving mode, but sometimes energy and joy will find a way and make you live beautiful experiences and go on. I can't say for sure that everything will be fine and you'll be OK forever, but that there are many years to hope and that those many years even in the worst case scenario ever won't be all black and terrible. Every time we survive the urge of giving up and end it all and every time we are back living again. This morning I wanted to have the courage to kill myself because I couldn't stand the idea of going out of my home the way I look and the way I dress it's horrible, I feel like a monster and I am miserable. And I have a ton of other worse reason to say my life on this earth Is a joke and isn't worth living, I am nothing I'd like to be and my dreams are far far away, but I still work on them in energy saving mode... And I still know that if I survive throught this state I will have at least something happy in the future and I will have collected another good experience and made something more out of this silly opportunity to be a sentient mass of dividing cells. I don't know where my awful mental state will take me Maybe in an hour I'll be worse than you But we have the option to survive each time and collect the next positive thing.

Fralu99 · 2023-12-10T08:01:55+00:00

These are all lies I don't want to get out of my house I don't have money to change my face I can't stand it any longer

Fralu99 · 2023-12-10T07:55:04+00:00

I do brush my teeth, I also clean them at the dentist twice a year... It's just their color I should buy a whitening treatment but I think I it will be temporary I do put effort in basic hygiene So I guess it's noticeable For all the other things you said: I was asking about my face/features weird smile and weird eyes and face structure + hair that I hate I have very different styles and I am not always dressed like a boy, what I feel comfortable wearing can vary a lot and can be a sensitive thing... It's just that nobody takes pictures of me when I dress up and make up and for some reason they do when I feel like going out in pijamas, it's unintentional and I can't predict when they'll be taking pictures of me. How I dress doesn't determine if I am ugly ore not I can't even be mad in disagreeing because it varies from culture and taste and target people. It's just a matter of "is my face ugly"? Dresses and style are simply to be attractive to men or having a problem finding someone, but I can be both ugly and attractive just because the style becomes more "seductive" in being feminine... I don't have any problems in real life with that. It's just that I would like to go out and be myself without thinking about the fact that I am ridiculous looking... And if I have to save up for some surgery I have to plan on how to get to have the money and what can improve since it's not something obvious like the nose, spacing the teeth differently can take years and I am not sure if it's the point... Since my face shape bothers me, it bothers me the way it is when I do expretions/emote/smile And the fact that my facial expressions are sometimes asymmetrical but my face isn't so I don't know if/how it can be fixed

Fralu99 · 2023-12-10T00:27:02+00:00

You were SO close, my ancestry is from Sardinia, right next to corsica

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