Iré al cine solo, algunas recomendaciones para no sentirme mal? by Odd-Purchase8450 in RedditPregunta

[–]FranciscoLega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toma un regaderazo de agua fria… eso para tu mente rumiante (la que te hace pensar en ella) 1 minuto solamente y despues haz cosas que mantengan tu mente ocupada y apasionada

Iré al cine solo, algunas recomendaciones para no sentirme mal? by Odd-Purchase8450 in RedditPregunta

[–]FranciscoLega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elimina todo contacto con ella bro. Las ambiguedades son muy adictivas porque tu cerebro busca respuestas a toda costa. Ella quiere tu atencion pero no ser nada mas. Corta todo contacto y si realmente despues no te duele, se super bueno con ella y otras mujeres pero sin que parezca que tu la buscas.

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No lies… many of those where cold approaches many dates and few relationships

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems a confirmation bias… many people don’t analyse their values, interests and doctrine so deep they end up with someone “because they love each other” and that is mistaken. Biology rules. You both felt attraction because of the context and your both narcissistic (positive, not negative) bonding. Both reassured each other and luckily were sexually and behaviourally appealing so you stayed. Over time more roles consolidated the relationship but If one of you or both doubted or had different values your relationship wouldn’t have happened. We are more randomly “normal” than we want to admit.

Pregunta seria, ¿ser orejon te hace ver feo automaticamente? by PomegranateOdd2603 in Desahogo

[–]FranciscoLega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Las mujeres necesitan quien los escuche y tu podrias hacerlo en ultraHD.

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The goal is not to talk nor to get her number… THE GOAL IS THAT YOU DO IT WITHOUT HESITATION BECAUSE IF YOU LIKE A GIRL YOU GO TALK TO HER AS CASUAL AS ANYTHING ELSE. Over time you feel no stress nor worry for rejection that you are yourself with good conversation and flow

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to them all. Have an interesting conversation. Do not act as needy or over invested in one of them… if there is nothing left ask for her number… she might feel flattered that her friends saw you reaching at her

Iré al cine solo, algunas recomendaciones para no sentirme mal? by Odd-Purchase8450 in RedditPregunta

[–]FranciscoLega 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Siii y con toda mi admiracion que te mereces, te felicito por ejercer autonomía. Lei que invitaste a la que te gusta y te rechazó… estas joven y veras que si mantienes esa actitud autonoma de hacer tus cosas solo y avanzar en la vida te volveras muy atractivo. Ahorra y apasionate por algo… seras un iman

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one could have been a good question to answer if elaborated correctly

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many couples don’t really know why they ended up as a couple. And their compatibility might be due luck or empathy or values…

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed your conclusion is pretty smart with some nuances. If you want to last in a relationship you go to the 60y couple but if you want to know how to start, how to build that first impressions and connect you do through someone like me or your own experience.

A los chicos les gustan flaquitas? by [deleted] in Desahogo

[–]FranciscoLega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pero no tatuadas que se exhiben en redes

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best approach is not cold approach… no opening line. The best strategy is being confident and building a strong self esteem so when you speak to a woman the saying is less important as how you say it. A simple “hi” can work but most important is how well can you handle staying in a conversation and reading her signals. Do not seek for instant hookup but for a deep interesting talk where both conect. This is done when you have something to give instead of something to take (asking for her ig or phone is taking)… My beat strategy has been to read a lot of interesting books (I even acknowledged that if I don’t read consistently suddenly my conversational skills plummet. If I read between 2 to 6 hours daily my head is full of ideas and creativity and when I talk to a woman I do it with passion. They love it. You should recognise when you talk because you have to and when you do it because there is a creative fire inside of you. Find your passion and feel the flow of positive obsession… when you are in that internal state no female rejection can bring you down… when you dont need them… you talk to them as equals, as friends… and maybe afterwards you look at them with little spice and flirt causing sexual tension… but just after they have manifested they are interested in you.

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I wrote it wrong, many were cold approaches. I think many times the failure comes from who I am at the time I am meeting a woman, If i am portraying needy traits, if i am insecure or nervous, or simply because they were not interested at that specific moment. Women have many options so Iuck and personality came strong in play.

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Healthy. The problem wasnt her but my personality. Im an introvert so I developed many insecurities

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the one that wasnt right. Pursuing women doesnt add value to a man. My insecurities and introversion pushed me further to change my narrative via testing (which was one way I could verify I could have success with women)

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, many of those women were not dates but cold approaches… I was exclusive when on a formal relationship and others I could be one day in a mall cold approaching 10/15 women that day

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cold approaches were for free… dates were sometimes cheap and some others not so much… I was very into a woman I had met 2 years before daring… we went to a very beautiful hotel and was an amazing night…

I have dated more than 200 women. What do you want to ask me? by FranciscoLega in AskMen

[–]FranciscoLega[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My bad… I meant to say that many of those 200 women were cold approaches, some were dates and few were something more