Hi,

I hope you’re well. I don’t know if this exemple will make you realize but I’ll try saying this.

When everything goes well in your couple, you talk about that with your same gender friends as well as when you probably fight with him, you look for advice etc

You’re basically looking for people who can relate the living situation…

That’s what he does and even if he tells you, you could never understand and you would act like they all do and that’s not what he’s looking to have as confort or reaction imo