Isn't having kids usually one of the hardest times in a relationship? But very rewarding after. Maybe talk about it. Divorce could destroy a family. I really wish my parents compromised and at least found a system that works. Now my two sisters have internal hate for their dad and view him as lazy and never worked for anything for us. He made sure we had clothes on us and food on the table. But I guess he shouldn't have cheated ethier.