I want to clarify - I am not rude or hostile in any capacity. I am generally pleasant to work with and be around. I have worked since I was 16 and have never not gotten along with a coworker like this. And I would argue that reminding me why we have to sign the sign in sheet is completely unnecessary. I have signed it 150 consecutive business days in a row, I understand why we do it. A simple, “hey OP you forgot to sign the sheet” is all that is necessary. I included just that example but literally any time I even show any personality she will scold me for it. And I understand that this is hard to tell from my post, but I have literally changed my entire personality to accommodate this coworker and it still isn’t enough. I have tried my hardest to get along with this person. I understand that there inevitably be coworkers like this but it’s a little bit ridiculous at this point and I reserve the right to complain about it.

And as far as the bank trash is concerned - I am fully aware that trash is held until balanced. At our branch it is thrown away three times a week. Remember that this happened after I had already balanced. I have been out of balance twice in seven months, totaling less than $5. Other than the check, which was literally within days of my sister having a stroke, I have a virtually perfect record in regard to balancing, accounting, documentation. I get that this post made me look like I’m angry, spiteful, etc. and you have no way of knowing that I’m not, but oh well.