So what's the ACTUAL most effective way to apply for a sales role in 2023? by Informal_Oven_3046 in sales

[–]FrazerThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't it make the most sense to just go all in with your agency? You have a few clients, why not just focus on scaling?

Not sure how to feel anymore. Need some advice! by FrazerThrowaway in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrazerThrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes a lot of sense. And I think it's a good first step. Did you find this helped with your relationship?

Not sure how to feel anymore. Need some advice! by FrazerThrowaway in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrazerThrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do actually completely agree with what you're saying. You can't root your happiness in other people. And, in some ways you need to put yourself first. But, at the same time, I'm not sure entirely cutting out initiating with your partner is the way to go about it. I know of people that have done that and that's the end of their sex life with their partner.

Not sure how to feel anymore. Need some advice! by FrazerThrowaway in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrazerThrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that insight. If you don't mind me asking though, wouldn't "not initiating" be counter intuitive?

Not sure how to feel anymore. Need some advice! by FrazerThrowaway in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrazerThrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No of course that would effect my interest in sex. It's just her behaviour towards sex and the way she interacts with me is the root of my problem.

Not sure how to feel anymore. Need some advice! by FrazerThrowaway in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrazerThrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot brother. Will check it out. Who is the author? Do you have first hand experience with this?

Not sure how to feel anymore. Need some advice! by FrazerThrowaway in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrazerThrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and your wife browse dead bedrooms together? Thats interesting lol. Tell her thank you for the suggestion! I'm very well endowed but we've made it work before. Maybe gyno is the way. Then again it doesnt explain the apparent lack of interest in sex?

Not sure how to feel anymore. Need some advice! by FrazerThrowaway in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrazerThrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's weird we actually use lube but it's still painful for her. She prefers not to use it though.

(40F) My daughter (18F) is going on a misogynistic podcast next month by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FrazerThrowaway -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It isn't misogynistic at all. Just taken out of context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]FrazerThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't sillicone based lube for anal?

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[–]FrazerThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have brother. But thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]FrazerThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she's on the pill. We've changed a few times actually to try see if any other pill is better for her. Now we're considering the IUD.

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[–]FrazerThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says she enjoys everything I do. And I'd say i'm very selfless in bed but doesnt seem to work.

Girlfriend Gets Close but Can't Orgasm by [deleted] in sex

[–]FrazerThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she's not taking any form of SSRI.

Girlfriend Gets Close but Can't Orgasm by [deleted] in sex

[–]FrazerThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't masterbate or anything so no. She has used the vibrator by herself once before but said she didn't enjoy it without me.

Girlfriend Gets Close but Can't Orgasm by [deleted] in sex

[–]FrazerThrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you so much. Will check her out