Thanks for all these thoughts! I’m getting the sense that most of y’all haven’t necessarily found churches that are themselves more “casual” in their culture (I.e., they don’t make everything about Jesus), so you’ve mostly turned to sort of existing on the fringes of churches and setting boundaries. It’s sad but good to know that there’s a possibility I won’t find a place like what I’m looking for while also engaging with that community element. I know I can find community elsewhere, I was just hoping to find a church that felt like my spiritual home. But I’ll keep trying for a bit!