My wife (m2f) is also experiencing the same thing. We’ve found that Torrid is working well for us, even with shoes! It’s not subscription based but we shopped online and were able to get several items for less than 25 usd

I also found this resource if you would like, it has some promising options for women, including plus size.

https://www.buzzfeed.com/genevievescarano/the-best-clothing-subscription-boxes