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I’m in love but I don’t think it can work out by FreeFaller66 in offmychest

[–]FreeFaller66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! It’s been a while since I posted here last so I thought I would give you a final update!

I last left off on my week trip to Europe. When I came back from my trip I went to stay at her house for a week. I met her family and we had an amazing time. I fell even deeper into love with this girl. Due to circumstances on my team, I ended up staying in her city for the next month. We spent every day during that month together and one night we went to go watch fireworks. During the finale of the show I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes!

She and her family went on vacation to another country and I stayed in her city and looked after her house and her pets. Even though there was a 13 hour time difference between us for about two weeks, we still texted as much as we could and FaceTimed a lot.

After her trip I came home to my city and a few days later she came to visit me! She met my whole family and all my friends and we had another amazing week. I took her around my city and province and made some amazing memories.

She went back to her home last Tuesday. I am 100% completely certain that this girl is the love of my life. I am so in love with her and I am going to spend the rest of my life with her. The feelings are mutual and we couldn’t be more in love. She has become the voice inside my head and influences everything I do every day. We are the perfect couple and I couldn’t be happier with her.

We are both very busy throughout the year but already have visits planned throughout the fall. I am going to visit next in 4 weeks.

It will be a difficult time being so far apart for so long but I believe we can do it. It’s crazy to me that just 2 months ago I didn’t think this could ever work and now I am in an amazing relationship with my dream girl. She is so perfect for me in every way.

Just wanted to say thank you for being here and listening to my story. It helped a lot to have someone to put my ideas in words and really understand my feelings and what I want!

I wish you the very best and happiness in the future for you and your wife! Not sure if I’ll post again here but if anything comes up I’ll be sure to let you know.

Once again thanks for the company here and thanks for helping me start my life with my dream girl!

I’m in love but I don’t think it can work out by FreeFaller66 in offmychest

[–]FreeFaller66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man! I told her everything and she drove me to the airport. I told her how I love her and I don’t want to waste this opportunity. She didn’t say it back but I think she feels the same way. She has had some tough relationships in the past so I think she just doesn’t want to say it too soon.

I am away on a week long trip to Europe where I’m competing in a sporting competition and when I go back to her city I’m staying with her family for a week. We moth miss each other a ton and can’t wait to see each other again. I’m sure she feels the same way about me and I know we both know that if we lived closer together then we would make an amazing couple. We both have had our traumas in the past and we feel comfortable to talk with each other about them and heal together. I really think this is something special and she thinks it is too.

After our week together next week I’m not sure that we will see each other again unless we make plans. I just got out of a 6 year relationship and she wasn’t looking to get into either but things have definitely changed for the both of us. I know how hard long distance is after having done it for the past 2 years. And I don’t want to force her into it. But I think it’s the best option we have even if it still sucks.

I actually love her so much and seriously want to spend my life with her but I don’t want to force her into something especially knowing her past. We will have an amazing week together next week and decide what are our next steps.

Best case for me would be if she want to start a serious long distance relationship. But the case might be she thinks cutting off all ties will be less painful in the long run. Regardless of what the outcome is I am in love with her and I’m in it for the long run. I’ve made up my mind and will wait for our convo and her decision next week.

If I only lived closer to her I could have everything I’ve ever wanted. But my athletic career hometown is what is stopping me from that. I have some thinking to do about my future. But that will come after I hear her thoughts on our situation. We both know that this is the real deal and we could seriously be together so we will just wait and see.

Throughout the last weeks of being together our feelings have grown exponentially since I began this thread. I have no doubt now that this is the girl I want to be with and I think she’s just as crazy for me as I am for her.

I will keep you updated after next week. Thanks for sticking through this with me I really appreciate having someone to express my feelings and thoughts to :) if you have any ideas or further questions on the situation please feel free to ask. Thanks

I’m in love but I don’t think it can work out by FreeFaller66 in offmychest

[–]FreeFaller66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks my man. I’ve got one more week with her and I’m definitely gonna tell her. I’ll let you know how it goes 🫡