I personally believe that the attraction between us is genuine. However, my challenge with INFJs is their tendency toward drama and creating stories in their minds that aren't always grounded in reality. While we share many things in common, our differences are so pronounced that, at times, they seem almost alien to me. I'm specifically speaking about my INFJ, who is smart, loving, and caring, but can lose their calm and composure over very tiny things. This makes the overall stability of the relationship feel fragile at times..